Pim-dem-hoes

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I know there is posts upon posts about their girl being too tight, blah blah blah but my g/f has an actual problem. Ive been talking to her for about 2 months have fooled around but she is way too tight for 2 fingers let alone my penis. She has went to the doctor for this and there is a possibility for surgery but she really doesnt talk about it because she thinks its embarassing.
My question is, does anyone know anything about this problem? Anyone ever experience this before with their g/f or themselves? Just wondering what i can do to help her out so we can enjoy sex.

flaker

My wife is to tight for 2 fingers as well but has no problem with my penis. It is just something that we have to live with.

Cybermax

Sounds like vaginismus. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus

jeffc574

She should get over it and see her doctor. The doc probably had to deal with something more embarrassing that day. If she is not comfortable with her Dr., she should find one she is. She will be seeing an ob/gyn for the next 20 years or more, she should be able to tell him.her anything and trust the advice.

Maybe you should stick to one finger near the clit and extra lube on Mr. Happy.

CD

You can bet your ass that if I had a problem that prevented me from having or enjoying sex, my Doctor would have me in his office before you can say "Shazam!"

If she's too embarrassed to see a doctor, she's going to be without a very important part of her life going forward.

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cm8

Maybe she has been taken advantage of. I know that when I was raped I had a hard time (still do) getting sexually involved with guys. I never told my husband though. Maybe she has a history of being sexually abused and or raped. There is a condition called vaginismus . It isn't painful sex- it is a complete inability to have sex at all. It's a psychological disorder. When a woman with vaginismus attempts to have intercourse, the muscles in her vagina involuntarily clamp shut, making any entry impossible. It can be due to past sexual abuse, strict religious upbringing, fear of pain, or in some cases it appears to be caused by nothing at all.

Pim-dem-hoes

Ok, i mistyped, she has talked to her doctor but not to me about it.
The vaginismus sounds kind of like it but im not sure. I kinda talked to her last night about it and she said that i just need to "stretch" her out with fingers and toys until my penis can fit.

fmb

She has given you some ideas on how to help her. Keep the lines of communication open, and most importantly, listen to her. She knows her body better than you ever will. Let her help the situation with some ideas!

Jimi

No banter in the vag

Juan

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Pim-dem-hoes

BS? Why the hell would this be BS? You think im makin it up that my g/f has too tight of a vagina and im not gettin laid? Beleive what you want buddy. Everyone else, thanks for the help.

assyrian

Most girls are tight if they haven't had sex... like she said you just got to stretch her out be patent pretend being in her position.

Weezer1982

Keep trying to loosen it up. If it doesn't work, consult a doctor so she can be diagnosed.

Pim-dem-hoes

I talked to her about it last night and basically instead of her vagina looking like this [ ] it does this /\ if that makes any sense. Its not vaginismus.
So bascially we have been working with it and finally got most of penis in. She can handle getting it in now before she couldn't but now its the length, it feels like im hitting a brick wall in there. Quite weird.

Jimi

So, she has a 2" cervix?

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"I don't care if they're black, white, purple or green. Awww hold on now. Purple or green? You gotta draw the line somewhere. To hell with purple people. Unless they're suffocating. Then help them."


January 2009, the end of an error.