powder19

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So i've posted on here a few times dealing with a long time girlfriend which we broke up awhile ago and I cut off contact, since then I've been working out hardcore, usually 6 days a week, 2 hours a day and have been living it up, its awesome I feel so much better, look the best I think I ever have and have met a ton of girls just in the past month, its been right around a month since I last saw my ex and I quit talking to her, last weekend I woke up to a text from her saying she misses me, I responded and said hey and didn't hear anything back and have continued on with my business...all I have to say is life right now is pretty good, there is no better time to be single again than the start of summer, anyways my ex's birthday is this weekend and I'm gonna be out of town, i've thought about just sending her a happy bday message just to be nice, but I feel like she would expect that, should I say anything to her or just keep on with my own thing and see how she takes it? I know I should know better by now and I already have a feeling about what all of you are gonna tell me haha

skept

fuck her...

you've got a new life and are loving it move on bang a random chick.

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fmb

I don't think you should send her anything. You're doing some good things for yourself; why step backward after the effort you've put into moving forward? Enjoy your life. Go out, meet new people, laugh, and have some fun.

@man2girlz

i'd send one but just as a polite short note. since you guys have history theres no reason not to, unless she treated you like shit, in which case i wouldn't. it never hurts to be civil, right?

CD

Send this and nothing more:

"Happy Birthday!"

If she replies to that, tell her you're out of town and just wanted to wish her a happy birthday. That basically says you aren't an ass, but she also has no chance in hell.

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fmb

That's some good thoughts from CD. I'd go with it.

powder19

thanks guys, thats pretty much what i had in mind, but its always nice to hear it from others

Weezer1982

Yeah, just text her Happy Birthday and nothing else. I'm glad your livin it up!

powder19

once again, I should have listened to you guys, but I finally learned my lesson, but of course it had to come the hard way. All I did was text happy birthday, that was all. When I turned my phone back on she had texted me 2 or 3 times wanting me to call her back. So I gave her a call, turns out her boyfriend went crazy and they broke up. We decided to hangout, and it was weird, it felt like times when we were together and I felt like maybe this was a bad thing, so we hungout one more time after she blew me off the day before. We had dinner went out and walked around holding hands, kissing, cuddling, the whole thing. So it was on my mind every single day and I needed to just see what the deal was, where we stood, etc. I asked if she would give things a shot again since things seemed to be going alright, she then told me that she was dating another guy...keep in mind this is within less than a week of her breaking up with the last guy, right then I knew I should have listened to you guys, I should have never even told her happy birthday...well I learned my lesson and told her I'm not gonna be talking to her anymore and left it at that...it really sucks to get played, and then the one person you thought cared about you finds your weakness and continues to play you whenever they need some comfort. Well I'm better than that and I feel so great right now, I'm an idiot for not listening to you guys in the first place thats for sure, but I guess thats life, and like most guys I for some reason have a hard time taking advice from people, even though they've been there and they know the outcome...thanks guys for all the help, I was just the idiot who didn't take it at first

Queso

Congrats on telling her off.

Your initiation is now complete. Now you can join the rest of us who give other people advice knowing they won't listen and will just have to find out on their own.

Juan.©amaney

Dumbass.


I should probably leave my response alone with just that, but here, I'll explain it to you.


You decide to work out, have fun, are having fun meeting new pussy, and here this chick has trouble, breaks up with her bat shit crazy man, and goes and plays with your fucking emotions with the "I miss you." Your dumbass caves and wants to run to her rescue so you answer "hey" trying to be mr smooth. Meanwhile, she is already "seeing" some other guy...probably just fucking the dude, becase:

a) when she broke up with you, she felt she needed a boyfriend and got the first loser to pay attention
b) she met someone else besides him and didn't know what she wanted, but everyone else knows she just wants to be a whore without the world thinking she is one
c) you are a fool and she knows how to play you, so she got comfort and then ditched your ass AGAIN.


When we say stop talking to her, we dont mean for a few days or weeks or months and then see what she is up to. NO, you cut that shit OFF like a fucking cancer. If some of the good flesh goes with it, fuck it. What that means is, if you have to stop talking to people you like because of her, its part of growing the fuck up and being a man.

Why haven't you changed cell phone numbers or put a block on her ass from sending you text messages?

When people break up, there is no such thing as being friends. Once in a while, you get the people in here that say they still talk to their exes and that people who say you can't be friends with an ex need to grow up....well fuck them, they have their shit straight and can do that....people like you, can't.

Holding hands and cuddling....what kind of pussified bull shit is that?!

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fmb

After reading Juans post, I kept shouting Ouch! Ooh!! Jeez! Then I realized what he is saying is correct. Don't be her crutch anymore. Continue on your path of finding new things. Don't go back to her; that was then. You're living now.