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Hey so I met this chick over the weekend who I found really attractive and was just a really cool girl all around, we talked for quite a bit, but we both got sidetracked with talking to a bunch of other people that we hadn't seen forever, I meant to ask her for her number cuz I really wanna see her sometime and hangout or take her out...so anyways I have her listed as a friend on facebook and that is really the only way I can contact her and the chances of seeing her again are pretty slim, so I'm curious if I should message her on facebook to see if she wants to do something or is that just total creepster and kinda weird? I know this seems like highschool or something, but I can't get her out of my head, but I need some people in the right mindset to tell me if its a good idea or not to take a chance here? I just don't wanna come off as a creep to her thats all.. thanks to those who have some advice

CD

Send her a message and say you were glad you could talk and would like to do it again over coffee or something. Hell, think of something fun you like to do and invite her along. No need to be shy, because if she thinks it's weird, just respond with "oh I'm sorry, I didn't know you were the type who doesn't like to have fun."

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kulotsalot

Umm, yeah, do all of that except for the "you're the type who doesn't like to have fun" part.

No need to be an ass if the girl just happens to not want to go out with you.

skept

2nd that.

If a girl quickly rejects you all that it means is you've wasted less time dreaming about what could have been and more time mackin on stuff which can be

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CD

That part just happens to a joke for the off-chance she makes a face wondering if she should or not. Remember girl, it's sometimes how you say something that completely changes the meaning of what you said. The goal is to get her to laugh or smile.

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Dr. Weezil

+1

maggiesdragons

if you don't try you will ask your self, what if for a while, maybe even 40 years from now. whats the worst that could happen?

siopawman

sometimes, stupid things work...

she'll let you know if she likes you... if there's no sign, what's your option B?

fmb

Ask her. Send her a smoke signal, if you have to. Sixty years from now, why sit on the front porch at the nursing home and wonder if you would've had a great time?