78camaro

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How do i get my gf to try new positions? I know all i need to do is ask, but how do i go about bringing it up? We have been together almost 2 years and the sex is great, but i want to try new positions. I dont want her to think i want her to act like a pornstar, but after awhile the same positions get boring. Any ideas?

Queso

Option A: during the act why not just change positions yourself or adjust her where you want her. That way you already know she's in the mood for sex and less likely to object, and you don't have to talk about it, just do it. I think it'd be a turn on to randomly mix it up when you're doing the deed.

Option B: Did you ever think that she might be feeling the same way too? If you've been dating for two years you should hopefully be comfortable enough to talk to her about that kind of stuff. Bring it up on a nice relaxing evening and talk about it. You may be surprised she's feeling the same way.

facepeeler

how would asking her to try different positions make her feel like a pornstar? Im just curious. Telling her you want to hit it from the back is nothing. Now telling her you want her to stand on her head while you hit it, that's acting like a pornstar.

Just tell her you want to try a different position. I'd bet that she will go for it. You gotta keep the sex interesting, or else it's gonna get real boring, real quick. Me and my wife have been together 3 years, and we're always doing different stuff. Keeps the sex mind-blowing, and we have a lot of fun with it.

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fmb

The above posts present some great ways of looking at things. Have you really listened to her while ya'll are talking? Probably, she has said something about what she likes and dislikes, unfortunately, you may not have heard her statement.

Talk with her!

78camaro

We have talked on different occassions and she likes the way things are going. I have asked if she would change anything or like to do anything different and she said no she is happy with the way things are so i hesitant to try something different.

Queso

did you leave it as vague as that or did you talk about the sex life specifically? If you were talking about the relationship in general she won't know what you're trying to get at. Be up front about it.

and if you were talking about your sex life in general, my condolences.

cestmoi2010

You don't say what positions you are doing but my guess is Missionary and maybe Doggie and not much else

If that is the case you might want to try changing the settings where you are having sex

If she is taking a shower - join her and try going at it there. She might find the water and steam of the shower erotci and be more willing to try something new

One of my favorite positions when I want us to Make Love and not have Sex is for me to sit on a chair and then have her sit on me facing me. This way our eyes are almost at equal level and I can kiss her lips or breasts and she can really grind on me and experience an orgasm because her clit is really getting worked on

Good luck with this - missionary all the time is boring

kulotsalot

I'm a big fan of the whole "let's try this" randomness while doing the deed. Not so random such that it ruins your momentum (or hers - if she is making O faces then definitely don't randomly flip her over or anything like that), but once in a while just throw in something new.

Some of my favourites have been discovered by doing spur-of-the-moment changes. The challenge is remembering it and trying to impart the knowledge to other people.

skept

Maybe I'm a bit behind or missed something... Did you marry cinn?

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cm8

I AM SO feeling you on this......

Emergancy Exit

dude just put her legs how you want them and tell her to move here or move there. she will find it fun and like it because she will know your interested in her. and just say "you like this?" or "am i hurting you?" at some point at least say the ladder!

but yeah what i do with my girlfriend is just move her how i want her. she isint going to bring it up during the act but she says she likes new things