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Keep in mind the obvious. On average, most guys are wired to get fired up with little stimulation -- at the word Go, they can blow and be on their way with practically any women who meets their visual standards. Generally, Women require a far deeper emotional attachment -- trust required, or willingness for reckless abandon -- ala drinking or a "the hell with it" flingish mentality.

On a deeper level, it Depends on the girl and her comfort zone / mental zone. Cumming for them takes a lot of letting go and being vulnerable. The more comfortable, the more likely a repeated orgasm. But there's a lot to be concerned about that can take a gal out of the zone, like the issue of pregnancy for those not in a committed relationship. Or, it can be outside the bed issues that fall back in. Those issues are far more likely if you take even a short break / don't keep her motor humming.

Just the same, many women don't have the full comfort zone with their their bodies / how they work / how they look. More than a handful, after one O, "sober up" and get self conscious. Many are terribly self conscious of certain positions showing off their parts too revealing. That especially applies if a gal is triggered to squirt and she's not done it before / was not planning on it / thinks she lost bladder control. She'll go from wild repeat orgasms to turning off lickity split!

Communication, communication, communication. Most gals will open up to multi with the right relationship / balance of trust / if they have the capacity to let go. That goes hand in hand, and if you're only new BF and GF or really don't talk much, don't just expect 100% trust for her motor to be 100% open to you. Not that some girls can't totally be open to it, but its very rare.

Don't hesitate to bring it up to her, but do so in a conversation about making sex better vs. "why aren't you comfortable enough to have multiple O's?" The latter pulls up walls vs. joint exploration into fun. Also, take to heart the foreplay concept.

Also, a final note: A common problem even in longer term relationships is the couple get lazy about warming the other one up, and its "one and done." Spend some time learning some massage stress reducing techniques and mix them with erotic techniques as you move forward. The more you build her up to wanting it vs. plowing on in (even if she wants that), the more she's gotta commit to lusting for you taking care of business. Really, when someone spends the time on the other to properly warm up the motor, a multiple O is virtually guaranteed. Why, I guarantee it!