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03-24-2008, 01:00 AM
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whore
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: kansas
Posts: 31/0.02
Threads: 1
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Serious/Personal Question
I have a serious question I would like to post on here. But first of all a slight history. I am friends with this girl who is amazing in every way (not like other girls for the most part) she and I have been friends for a long time around 8 years. We are completely comfortable with us being just friends. I currently live with her and her sister. We used to have sex when we first met just messing around. But that was a long time ago then we started up again having sex around two years ago. She has an "open" relationship with another guy now (which i am comfortable with). My question is how could I make her want to kind of mess around again. The only reason being is I can see her being open the idea again. Let me know what you think. Thanks
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03-24-2008, 11:20 AM
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bitch
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Jefferson City
Posts: 1,057/0.75
Threads: 6
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Re: Serious/Personal Question
If you live in her house, better have a new place to stay lined up first.
Try talking about your old times and see what she says.
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03-24-2008, 11:38 AM
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Mod with the Bod
Champion!
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Canada
Posts: 6,365/4.16
Threads: 132
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Re: Serious/Personal Question
I'd ask her what the boundaries of this open relationship are, and what would be considered not OK. If sex is not on the list, then that opens up the whole "can we mess around again" conversation.
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03-24-2008, 03:21 PM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: North Mexico . . . Penis Size: Python
Posts: 17,619/8.10
Threads: 512
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Re: Serious/Personal Question
If its happened a few times in the past, nothing is stopping her from doing it again. Just ask a very casual, "hey, you're up a for a little quicky to help me loosen up for (insert something here)"
If she agrees, you're gold. If not, there is really no reason why she should get weird, its not like you havent fucked before.
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03-24-2008, 08:30 PM
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whore
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: home
Posts: 761/0.50
Threads: 6
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Re: Serious/Personal Question
give her some hints, like do you say a word that turns her on? or remind her of those kinky times that you did somewhere in the house, etc.
she'll tell you if she's still up to it. if she doesn't like the idea anymore, try some convincing, if you think its futile, then totally stop.
good luck.
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