powder19

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So if you haven't seen my other thread my girlfriend broke up with me after new years mainly because of family problems she was having and she just wanted some space to figure her life out and find out what she wants, so I was cool with it we give each other our space and life goes on...in the past month we've been getting much closer again, going out and doing the things we used to do when we were together. Over the last week we had sex again and when we were together I could make her cum almost everytime when I went down on her, the last 2 times I've gone down on her shes been unable to orgasm...the first time though we were both pretty drunk, but the last time it was in the morning and I was down there for quite awhile and she said she was really close, but in the end she just accepted it wasn't gonna happen. My question is, is this something to do with me? I do all the things we used to do and she definately enjoys it when I'm doing it, but she hasn't cum...so is this something I need to worry about? Or does she just have things on her mind? I feel like she was trying to rush it and getting frustrated, she kept telling me that she was so close like there was presssure for her to cum and get it over with even though I love going down on her I feel like she feels some guilt that I'm down there for so long...anyways am I just worrying to much? Thanks

skept

Mate her having an orgasm doesnt mean shes satisfied.

As long as she is satisfied all is well.

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siopawman

you think too much.

if she loves how you do her, and if she thinks you're a blast, then she means it.

i guess she's sexually matured to let you know if you hit the right spot or not. not making her cum is just our expectation of a not so great sex, but have you ask her if she enjoyed it?

maybe you're too excited or too eager that's why you get tensed and would not finish together. i mean, there are other ways of making her cum, and she would ask for it if she gets lost in momentum.

btw, stress also counts. if she's not in the mood, or is not at her peak, she might not cum even if you're the best tongue around. no need to worry about it, there are lot more times to cover up for the losses.

cheers!

jeffc574

You both need to relax. She may still have too much on her mind. She may also want you to hit a different spot than "the old way". Don't rush her and see what happens.

fashionista

I can see how that might be a blow to your ego (no pun intended). It could be a whole list of things..or it could be nothing. It means something that you even care...so maybe just try talking to her.