johnnyboo

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OK well I am 22 and well I have had a girlfriend for about 2yrs now and I am debating cheating. My girlfriend is hot and a great girl I plan on marrying this girl but because we are not married yet I am debating cheating. There is a girl at my work and she is 39 and a total milf. She just recently divorced and I am thinking about having sex with her. We flirt all the time and she loves the attention that she gets from a younger guy. I am not interested in any girls my girlfriends age because I totally see that as wrong. I have had the oppourtunity to have sex with girls my girlfriends age but didn't because I thought that was wrong. But I figure since all this woman wants is sex and it toally turns me on that she is so much older. What are some of your thoughts? Like I said my girlfriend is great and I love her but its not everyday you get a chance like this and I would never start a realationship with this older woman it would be purely physical.

xboarderguyx

If you love your girlfriend and want to marry her then you definitely should not do this. If you do decide to do this it could A. ruin your relationship with your girlfriend. She would never be able to trust you again; at least not the way she can trust you right now. B. possibly end the relationship with your girlfriend. C. It will just end up hurting her if you do this and she will resent you for that and she can hold that over your head for however long she wants to. This is definitely not a good idea if you are thinking about having a long term commited relationship with your current girlfriend. My suggestion? Keep the fantasies in your head and grab some lotion You might get pleasure from this girl for an hour but you will have to deal with the repercussions for a long time to come.

Bigeme

What he said. Before anyone else comes in here and says it don't get married yet. If you are thinking about cheating now, you probably don't want to marry this girl. It's not going to change all of the sudden.

CD

What would your current gf think if you got herpes from the MILF?

Or would you be upset with your gf if she gave you the clap that she got from a OMSWTF? (older man she wants to fuck)

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kulotsalot

Nice acronym there!

A vagina is a vagina is a vagina. Don't really see how sleeping with a MILF could be OK but sleeping with someone your age is not. You're just rationalizing this in your head.

Don't do it. It's never right.

fmb

What are you thinking? You will not consider hopping into the sack with women your own age but are more than willing to consider jumping into bed with an older woman? The rationalization doesn't make sense to me. Here's something I found a long time ago and I think it perfectly fits the older woman you're fantasizing about:

Why does a man take it for granted that a girl who flirts with him wants him to kiss her -- when, nine times out of ten, she only wants him to want to kiss her?
Helen Rowland (1875-1950) American journalist and humorist.

Don't screw up the good you may have for the few moments of possible pleasure the other woman may provide. Let us know what you decide!

butthead006

johnny, if you have a girl that you love, don't cheat with the older woman. If you are thinking about leaving her/tired of the relationship/tired of her, and are looking for a reason, take it; because if any of the above apply, it's already over. You might consider if your current g/f is what you want or need, but it's throwing up a huge flag if you are contemplating cheating. It says to me you are tired of her and need something different, which is completely ok, but you have to be honest with her and yourself.

p.s. Older women are great in bed, If what you're in is wrong for you, go for it. The sex should be greater than you imagine.

SirSlade86

Go for it! Smack that like it owes you money!

siopawman

different people really have different ideas about what's right or wrong.

if you think your life wouldn't change a bit if you do her, then go for it (which i doubt, most likely, you'll get caught up without knowing what hit you).

if you do, wear a condom.

if you decide not to do her. cheers! thats the boring plan. but its for the best.

Juan.©amaney

You are going to fuck yourself over something fierce. First your girl is hot, second you think you are in love, third you are thinking marriage. You were brought up thinking sex is wrong and now that you are out of your shell you don't care who you hurt as long as you get pleasure.

Whether or not you do it doesn't even matter anymore. What does matter is that because you feel this way, you are going to turn into what most men your age with a steady gf turn into....bitter. Dump the gf, go out and sew your wild oats, find another when you are ready once you are older. If you marry this one and decide not to cheat (now anyway) you will always think back to all the puss you missed out on.

My diagnosis, you are fucked either way.

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johnnyawesome16

mate, don't do it. you have said you love your girl. if you do, this wouldn't even be a question. with all due respect, it sounds like you're thinking with the wrong head. don't do it and, if nothing else, you will be able to truthfully say that you have never cheated on your girl.

hope this helps.

johnnyboo

thanks alot for everything so far nothing has happened but the woman at work is turning the pressure on

Nifty

I would argue that you don't truly love your girlfriend if you are willing to cheat on her. She may bring you comfort, and you may even care about her deeply, but if all it takes is some geriatric poon to get you to cheat then maybe its best that you just call it a day with your girlfriend. Then you can go and slam whatever the hell you want, and when you're done and have gotten it out of your system you can find another chick that you actually want to be with.

I married young like you are thinking of doing...trust me, don't. Go out and get laid, and then find a relationship that you want to last for ever. If this IS the relationship that you want to last forever then you better man up, and just keep your dick in your pants.

habjad

older woman needs you for her reasons. not yours. say no. walk away. be tough. tell GF that you are under pressure, but you have walked because you see your long term future with GF. expect hottest sex of your life from GF ....