butthead006

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Well, let's get the story done first. I started dating this girl, I am 22 while she is 20, she has a baby, I am not the father. We hung out and spent time with each other, and everything went well at first. We had previously been intimate, so being physical quickly was not a problem. It quickly stalled out and she began to be afraid of "getting too deep to quickly", so I was perfectly honest with how I feel, I want for our relationship to be physical too, as it already has been, and that I have needs. I also told her that I am willing to work with her and do whatever I had to do to show her I care and do want to be with her, but I also don't want to waste my time if the feelings are not there, and she started crying. We broke up the next day, which was about a week ago. I'm not devastated or anything, we didn't date for long, 1.5 months, but I feel bad. She admits she led me on, and didn't know she was going to feel this way until it happened, which I can respect. What I want is you guys' opinion on if I did the right thing. I wanted to be honest with her, and I told her EXACTLY what was on my mind. I think complete honesty makes good relationships. Advice please?

number1mikafan

You didn't dick her around at all. You didn't allow her to get invested too much....and you didn't lead her on at all. You did the band-aid thing. A lotof pain at first, but you didn't fuck with her mind too bad for the next guy.

I did the same to a girl once and she HATED me for a while....but then she got dicked over by a guy and she came back and told me she appreciated my honesty.

jeffc574

Single moms can be gun shy. After all, the daddy dumped her. Give her some space and let her know if she wants to talk to you, you are there. At the same time, you cannot stop dating/looking waiting for her. If she calls, you may need to tell her you are with ___ now and can talk and that's it.

It sounds like you are doing ok with everything.

CD

The CD is pleased at how you handled it. Rep.

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Juan.©amaney

damnit

+1 on CD. You say how it is, how it will be. If they don't like it, they know the outcome. Good job, I know you will have a good future.

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