Dorkerbiter1

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She has had two kids, but she is is still on the way up on the scale...its been two years, BTW.

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Juan.©amaney

approach her calmly and offer to help out. if you love her, there is no wrong way of telling her as long as it isnt rude. choose a side like "its bad for your health" rather than the obvious "bitch, I cant find the hole anymore"

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rjsincs

first off chose your battles. remember that if you tell her even nicely the second you gain weight which invariably will happen she will be very quick to point it out. unless its excessive i say deal with it. if it is excessive and it does become more than just a chubby/ pudgy issue and more of a health thing then tell her nicely and offer help. be it offering to walk or work out with her or buy her a gym membership. gaing weight is a very touchy subject and some people are very self conscious about it.

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cm8

OMG, chances are your wife knows that she has gained weight too! have you tried having babies? some women are not able to get back down to pre pregnancy weight/ size due to the hormones going crazy. It is also possible that she may have developed an under active thyroid and that is contributing to her not being able to lose the weight. I'm not trying to tell you what to say, but I hope that you have not had any major changes to your body the past 2 years as well, you know what I mean like , balding hair, pot belly, things of that nature. I was also 25 pounds heavier after my children and the reason was that my thyroid went crazy after giving birth and that caused all the other hormones to go out of sync. I would not trade my babies for anything. Everyone changes, even super models who's bodies are air brushed to make them look like perfection. Try taking her and the kids for exercise, maybe she will like for you to help her get back to her pre pregnancy size/weight. But under no circumstances should you call her names, with hold sex or put her down. That makes her life as well as your's a living hell and trust me it doesn't get better from there.
Good Luck

poohbah

Invite her to go workout with you. You are probably too pudgy too.

Lucky13

I agree with poobah, offer to work out together on a regular basis. That will take something that could potentially cause a rift between you two and make it bring you two together. You could also subtly take over grocery shopping duties to make sure that there's no junk food in the house. Next time she doesn't feel like cooking and wants to go out to eat, offer to cook dinner yourself, and make it something healthy, she'll like that even more.

Devone16

i like the idea of working out together

BillaBong6

Tell her that you BOTH should be getting healthier --- this does not just include working out at a gym. Go food shopping together and pick out healthy foods and meals. When you go out to dinner, offer to split a meal with each other or the kids. And you can also do many other activities together. Go for a bike ride, a jog on a nature trail, or even do some yoga together.

This is not an easy topic to approach women with, but if you get involved with it (as anybody should be), it will make it both fun and beneficial for your health and your relationship.

Good Luck

SirSlade86

Easy don't! unless you want to be sleeping on the couch for a while!