DonnieB

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Hey WR I have a problem

little background story~

I met this chick on an online video game. Now Ive known her for over a year now we talk all the time and in my opinion have a fairly strong relationship. Over the course of our time we've both had many bfs and gfs but about 3 months ago I broke up with my old gf.

Now I havent dated anyone since Ive broken up, but lately she has been dropping hints that she really likes me. I think I really like her too, possibly even love.

Now I have a few problems, 1st one is how do I know I love her if Ive never met her? 2nd one is she lives far away prolly a 2 day drive. Now I plan on visiting her for 2 weeks in the summer. What if it turns out we both love eachother? She takes care of her father a bit,(I dont have a problem with this infact I find it cool that she is willing to cook for him and shit because that means I get it too ) so she cant move to be with me; so the only option is for me to move to her. I dont have a big problem with that, but if we end up breaking up I dont know if I would have the money to move back to my hometown and I might have to stay in America(No offence).

I realize everything here is my choice ultimately I just wanna get some advice on if I should move forward...

PS. I know she isnt ugly lol

skept

Loves different things to different people... you have to well see if she is giving you what you want and need.

I'm the type of person that always takes a punt so I'd go for it and worry about consequences later.

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rbster

If you haven't seen her face to face, then there is no way to no if there is any chemistry. Just because you are fond of her gaming/online persona doesn't mean you will like the real thing. 2 days drive is a long way from home but if you're young it couldn't hurt to give it a shot. I wouldn't get my hopes up though.

maggiesdragons

I would go with it, often a relationship that starts out with a simple friendship first last longer. If you like her take a chance, drive to her spend a few days to see if you like the chemistry, go back home and plan what you are gonna do.
move to be with her or stay home.

fmb

Hell, I thought I was struggling! Anyway, why not give this a shot? Here are a few things to think about until you get out her way:
1) long distance relationships are tougher than a relationship with a woman down the block. This will take much more effort than you've probably put into many others.
2) you only know her from her online persona. Sometimes, folks are their true selves online because they have nothing to lose; unfortunately, some folks act as though they are who they WANT to be. If this is the case, this could be really bad news for you.
3) If you move out there where she is at, what are you gonna do? What's the job prospects looking like? Can you make it in that location without her, supposing this goes really bad.
4) If this works out, do you know enough about the area to be happy there??
5) If this doesn't work out, how long might you have to stay in the area until you can make your way back to your old home??

Keep an open mind, don't establish unrealistic expectations, and think positive. Sounds corny, but that's all I can say...

BradleyNIN

Oh come on... this is 8 kinds of f*ck*d up...

If you love her, you'll just know. But only after you've met her in person. Just because you think its sexy that her lvl 45 gnome priest can take out a lvl 47 elite moonkin doesn't mean that its love at first blight...