Baby Jai

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Ok here I am with my girlfriend for a lil over 3 months, and to be honest, we love making videos of us having sex and putting it on the internet. Do you think its morally wrong to show the love that we have for each other and share that with other people? Do you think its wrong to make videos? Im wondering because its almost like I HAVE to make videos of us. She doesnt find anything wrong with it as long as im happy with it.

Juan.©amaney

Whatever floats your boat, dude. I doubt it having much to do with love and sharing it with others, more of an exhibitionist fetish. As long as you are both okay doing it, keep in mind those videos might come to your boss' attention or people you don't typically want seeing them.

If you are aware of the consequences, and think its okay, do your thing.

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Baby Jai

yeah i know its funny you say that, they are on %%%%%%% and her old job saw them, but i dont think they can fire you for it, thats like a major no no or something. I dont care if my boss sees it, im a web designer by default, so if they dont like it, ill find another job if you know what i mean. It makes me feel better to know im not alone in this world thinking its ok.

siopawman

"OK" is a vague word.

rapport always play a good part in work relationships. even if you feel good about it but someone in your office gets offended with it, then it might cause a problem (and even if everyone in your office knows about it and doesn't mind about it, but someone out there somewhere doesn't like it, then you can't do anything about it)

right and wrong doesn't always rely on the majority or the belief of the doer of the action. its a complex balancing between the two.

i personally don't see any problems about what you love doing (you're the man!), but having many people believe in what you believe doesn't automatically make it "correct".

Baby Jai

no your right it doesnt make it correct, however on the flip side, isnt correct what makes me happy? And to be honest, this makes me happy regardless of what it does for other people. 90% of the people that watch it are making good comments about it. So I dont know, just makes me feel better they like it and agree with it or whatever.

BackdoorJesus

Seems to me, in that you've posted a thread in BOTH for us to look at your youtube videos and now you are telling us of this other extracurricular activity of yours, that you are simply a bit of an attention whore.

Having said that, I can tell you that sex videos on the internet are not generally received as heartfelt statements of love for people to see the joy you share with this girlfriend, they are received as porn for people to jack off to - end of story. Heh - sure the comments are positive no shock there.

So in the end, do whatever it is you want; just know two things - you won't become famous by posting videos of yourself on the internet (at least not for longer than 15 minutes), and whatever lofty purpose you think you are accomplishing by doing so is an illusion on your part.

But I expect that you probably recognize that inside already & are just making excuses for your behavior to make yourself feel better about doing something that YOU might feel is morally questionable.

Whatever to that dude - it's just the internet. Like juan said, do whatever you want as long as you're aware of the possible consequences.

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cm8

I so agree with the previous comment. I think that you just love the attention that you receive. Have you thought about what your parents might think if they came across that ? I would be too embarrassed if my parents caught me getting me some and I'm married., LOL

Baby Jai

well first off my mother is dying, and she knows i do it, its my life, i do with what i choose, and my father never even touched a computer "hes to good for it". And why the hell are my parents looking on the site anyway if they do see it, oh hey J, I saw your video on whatever and yeah wow.....no i dont think so. I could give a shit what my parents think. My mother was a go-go dancer in the 80;s so its not much different.

BackdoorJesus

meh - you asked for honest thoughts; you got em.

do what you want; obviously it doesn't really matter to you what anyone else thinks since you're determined to do what you want to do regardless - it's irrelevant what people on the internet think anyway.

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gman80

dude !!! morals?? who cares as long as you and her like it and your not gonna be put in jail for it. You gotta release your mind from the chains of popular believes.

ey2289

on a side note....post em up!

Baby Jai

cant cause they are live links....

Tairos

No way in hell I'd ever do it, but whatever.

yoursdeepus

You Life, u do whatever u feel like. But, remember, there can be consequences as others pointed out.

My honest opinion - I dont care what u do, i wud rather love to see ur vdo. But, I wont make mine.