Maggot_6669

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You guys helped me last time I came on here so I'm going to give it another shot even though I'm not sure if anyone can help me with this... Here's my other post if anyone needs background info....

My girlfriend and I are having sex now but because of my "problem" it's unprotected sex and neither one of us really want a baby right now. Every time we do something it's always in the back of our minds but we don't know what to do. I'm having a hard time with condoms because they are made for regular guys and I'm not regular so they don't fit. I've talked to my girlfriend about going on the pill but she's afraid of talking to the doctor about it because she has this idea if the doctor knows she'll think she is a slut and if anyone else found out they'd think it too and it just makes her uneasy. I told her I wouldn't push it because she has gone through enough but we need to think of something because unprotected sex will eventually bite us both in the ass.

so I was wondering if anyone knew anything else we could do or if there are condoms for guys who aren't exactly normal....

CD

Well I have no idea what problem you have down stairs, so I really can't answer your question about the condom. Your best bet is to ask a doctor this stuff, since it's their job to help you in anyway that they can.

As far as her not asking for birth control, that just shows immaturity on her part. You both need to grow up a little and stop getting so embarrassed.

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Queso

being on the pill isn't slutty. it's being mature and responsible. Her doctor isn't going to think any less of her, it's what they do. Personally, I'd think a girl coming in knocked up would seem more slutty than a girl asking for birth control. Don't let her turn into the former.

Maggot_6669

I talked to my doctor about it already and he was actually thrown off by it and he told me to just use regular condoms even if they don't fit right but it gets pretty annoying when you have to fix it every 5 minutes. He said he'd look into it for me but its been awhile and he still hasn't come through yet and for some reason I get the feeling he doesn't want to be bothered with it.

As for my girlfriend I really don't know what the problem is... I've told her it would be okay but she won't do it. I bring it up and she gives me excuses like the slut excuse or she says don't worry about it because we won't have an accident even though we both know it might happen

gen. cutter

no baby sex:

1. there's the pull-out method. you must pull out EVERY time. aim for the tits or the 'accidental' facial shot. :-)
2. can't get her pregnant going thru the back door.
3. alot of women over here take birth control pills because it helps with hormones to control acne. i know its another sensive subject but its a good excuse.

CD

Ok dude, so what is your problem down there? Nobody here knows you, so it's not like you are gonna tell us and we'll point our fingers and laugh. But if your doctor is being an ass, maybe it's time to get a new doctor.

Interestingly enough, that is my advice for the gf too. Don't worry about it? Holy shit man, that is about as likely as me not worrying about a bullet to my kneecap! Dude, if I were you, I'd look at her and tell her flat out that she has to put her big girl pants on and get some birth control. The condom situation is unfortunate and if she doesn't care enough about that to help your situation out, I'd leave her and tell her it's cause she's not mature enough for you. Cause seriously, between the condom and the possibility of pregnancy, I'd have a hard time enjoying myself.


1) However, pre-cum, CAN get her pregnant. The pull out method may work better then cuming inside of her, but it's nowhere near as effective as a condom.
2) true, but I doubt she's that type of girl. and even if she is, you can only go in the back door so many times before she's gonna want her front door to feel good.
3) true.

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Juan.©amaney

Female condoms. Harder to come by, but worth it.

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Foam

Dude, explore your options. I hate condoms, so I make sure I pull out.

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Maggot_6669

I have this rare thing called micropenis or microphallus and it's where I don't grow down there like I should have so it makes sex and stuff a lot harder....

I talked to my girlfriend after I read what you said and she agreed that she would go and talk to the doctor about it. She's uneasy about it but I told her it would be the best thing right now and she agreed

CD

Sorry to hear that. Hopefully now that she's on board things will work out nicely between you two. Best of luck going forward.

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