Butter

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Right, im in a pretty ideal situation at this point in my life. Im 19, single, and at university, theres a huge amount of single girls everywhere!
My problem lies in actually being with any of said girls.
I have no confidence issues, i can talk to them, and make great friends! My problem lies in finding girls just for flings. Im definitely not at a point in my life where im looking for long term stuff, just a roll (or a few) in the hay.
Now i do look extremely young for my age (ive been told under 16), and i think this might be where my problem lies. Girls are really interested when it comes to being my friend, but if im in a club, i rarely get a second glance.
Just wondered if theres anything i can do to help myself here! Apart from wait a couple of years, but thats not really what any guy wants to hear, hehe.
I can approach them fine, but in a club where the musics loud, its hardly ideal for making conversation.. so i dont really know what to do!
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

kulotsalot

Maybe don't use clubs as a place to meet girls. I hardly ever go. Intoxication + loud music does not equal a pleasant experience for me.

Juan.©amaney

Clubs suck to "meet" girls, but its excellent to pick up random drunken whores. If you find it hard to pick up on random drunk chicks, then go somewhere else.

You have the right idea going....too young for anything serious. So go to frat parties, campus activities etc. Looking too young isn't really a problem, per se, but I see where it can be slowing you down.

Its all attitude though, not much to do with looks. You have to find a way to get attention to yourself. Be the center of attention and girls will come to you.

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TMack23

I'd tend to agree with the above posters, you have a much better chance with "friend of a friend" situations. Go out of your way to check out as many different groups of friends as you can, if you aren't a dbag most of the time you will get a helping hand from either yours or her friend. Girls love the random new guy that appears at a hangout she is comfortable in, and she'll be more likely to return your flirting.

hobo man

Have you tried going for a younger gal?

I have been with a gal 2 years younger than me for 2 years now and has worked out great

jeffc574

Get out of the clubs. Try other campus events. And, if you are not looking for something serious, tell her that. She may just need a little something sometimes too.

skycatcher

You say you have no problems talking/flirting so that's a good first step, but i agree that a club probably isn't the best place for you then. I'm the same way myself. If I go to a friends party and there are random women/friends there then he warns them to wear a chastitiy belt because I really am that good at flirting/manipulating while there. In a club/bar however, I don't feel as comfortable picking up random women and I've got too much competition going on so usually I don't even waste my energy/time with girls there since you may end up spending 4 hours with someone just to find out they don't want to have any type of sexual relations.

On another note, I've kind of been experimenting... seeing what I can tell women and still get away with it. I'm pretty convinced that if you're charming and self-confident you can tell them anything and still score. I've gone as far to tell them that I'm a pretty big whore and that I'm not really interested in a relationship at this point, but somehow always end up in bed with them.

Social skills are the key. Get your charm (not cheap or tacky) going and you should be able to convince most girls that even though you're not out for a relationship a night of sex can still be fun for both of you without any regrets.

89tracerman

same here i have been told i look younger, im 20 all i did was grow a goatee. lol

Butter

Hey, thanks for all the replies, theres some good advice there! :D
And im not really into drunken whores, dont know what they could be carrying! One of my mates a while back got a nasty skin infectiony type thing just from kissing a random girl!
But yeah, the goatee thing, cant grow a proper beard yet, just random stubbly bits

BackdoorJesus

two points of advice to you:

1. lower your standards
2. ALWAYS wear a rubber

keep those two things in mind & you will get laid regularly and will not get any serious contagions.

as far as places go, frat parties, dorm parties & other social gatherings associated with your school are the best.

Dance/loud clubs are desperation time, although the upscale clubs are nice if you're going cougar hunting (another good option for a youngish-looking dude).

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