Spoiler90

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hey everyone.

two questions actually...

#1. this has been so ever since i can remember (im in early 20s), but whenever i get an erection, my penis cant bend downward (as if i were standing up). its "resting" position when excited is usually pointed straight up. i can bend it down to make it about horizontal with the ground, but anything lower than that and it starts to hurt and feels like if i go any farther it is going to snap right off.

#2. i have noticed (through seeing it in porn) that my penis wasnt circumsized properly...the portion of the "helmet" closest to my body is still there...its not very big...about 1cm...and then on the opposite side is kind of the same thing about 1/2cm. I was wondering if that would have anything to do with how long i last while having sex. the later is a very sensitive area.

thanks for not laughing at me...or not doing it to my face. but any info or experiances anyone would like to share would be great~

thx.

kulotsalot

Don't try to bend your penis farther than it will allow you to bend. Look up "penile fracture" - something that you don't ever want to do to yourself.

skept

.1) Only way i can get it going straight down is to compensate by tilting pelvis etc. Just push it until, dont force it.

2) I'm as God made me - so I can't help here.

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Bigeme

Fixed.

If you are really concerned or it is very painful, I would see a doctor.

siopawman

.1. if you're referring to why how porn guys were able to do different position, without hurting their's, it is because the skin in their penis is elastic. i used to get that same problem, but it didn't bother me. don't force it, coz as time goes, it will get horizontal naturally.

2. different cuts for different strokes. here, they would ask your preference, they call it german cut if its circumcised "cleanly", no skin left during circumcision. thats why it looks clean. the other cut, i forgot the name, is the normal cut. (you have it, i have it). they say the extra skin adds to the sensation during actual penetration. (but i doubt it) some, what we call "sea-men", those who work abroad on ships, say they attach small circular objects in that extra skin, to compensate for their penis length at width.

nothing unusual or abnormal on your part. it hurts like hell if you force to bend it, but it'll get used to if you do things (related to sex) more often and of course, slowly.

kulotsalot

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Juan.©amaney

lol

You are normal, dont worry too much about it. As for the circumcision, that is just poor quality from the doctor...don't worry too much about it either unless its rubbing you wrong, literaly.

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PMBalls

Here's my thoughts:

1: You wang points up because of a certain 'cord' that goes from the inside of it to an 'anchor' inside your body. This is a tight, elastic cord. Your's may just be extra tight. I wouldn't see this as a bad thing, considering that there are some mighty fun zones along the walls of the vagina and a straight out dick usually misses them unless the dude angles his hips specially for the position.
As already stated, don't force it or you'll end with a broken weewee.
An interesting side note, when people go for penile enhancement surgery, often times the doctor simply cuts this cord which makes the penis extend out farther because nothing is 'holding it back', but this has the unfortunate side effect of the penis hanging straight down even when rock hard.

2. Is there scarring you can see? Maybe your head is just lopsided, no biggie. As for how long you last, there are all sorts of ways to work and extend that.

Spoiler90

if you could elaborate...

PMBalls

There are two main camps, working out you dong so it can 'clench' better and hold back the load, or working out your overall stamina so it takes longer to reach climax.

The first one is done through kegel exercises. Google it for more info, or else just follow this short version:
1. next time you pee, figure out what muscle you clench to stop the flow of urine. Experiment a little to be sure you've got the right one. If your asshole flexes, you've got the wrong muscle, it should be your penis only.
2. throughout the day, when your sitting on the couch, at work, whatever, do sets of ten clenching, holding, and releasing that muscle. It should be invisible to everyone around you, so no worries.
3. start slow and build up the length you hold, the amount of reps, the number of times you do it during the day, etc.
If done correctly for long enough you'll build some dong muscle which has the twofold bonus of holding it back better and giving you a 'shotgun blast' when you do finally let it out.


The second way, building up your stamina, is basically masturbating certain ways to dull your sensitivity. I dunno how long exactly you're going for currently, and its not really my business either, so these numbers are made up.
What you do is set goals for yourself of increasing time and increasing 'feelgoodness'.
Start with ten minutes, no lube, good porn. Go to it like you normally would, but DON'T LET YOURSELF GO until the ten minutes have passed. This means slow down or even take a 30 second break if need be.
Work up to longer times, with lube, with whatever else gets you off, with a partner, etc.
The theory of this method is to condition yourself to be used to the sensations so it isn't such a big "OMG having sex go cum right away" event. Now its "this feels good, but I've done it before so its no biggie" feeling. This is a double edge sword. On the one hand, you should be able to pound away on your partner for longer periods of time, but on the other hand it may not feel as good to you since you're 'used' to it now.