yammy

Yep. Its for real. Funny thing is that its merely revealing a formerly secret code. Odds are he's been reading it, but just the same, he might have stumbled on what makes you happy and that's what's important to him.

The art of seduction goes back thousands of years. Women for years have yanked guys around knowing fully well that many men want to get into their pants. A majority women know at least partially well how to lead guys on, play them off each other, and how to use their allure to stay in control. There are those that are particularly adept at this game, and can be bitches / jerks about it.

On the other hand, most guys are generally oblivious, and get lead around by their noses or wankers, until the women decides what to do with them. Once a girl figures them out, they're dumped as too boring. (how many times are nice guys complaining that the assholes are always the ones getting laid, and they're the biggest jerks to women-- yet the women eat it up.)

Granted, a minority of guys learns soon enough that the way to get most women out of her clothes is to treat her like a cat. (e.g. you don't get a cat to play by clumsily trying to play right off the bat. You gotta show a little interest, back off, show a little more, then back off and ignore -- play with the other cat if there's one. Before you know it, the cat you want to pay with is going nuts to play with you.)

Those guys then break into two camps: those who use the knowledge to get laid as much as they can, and those that respect women not as a means for self gratification. That's not to say there's anything wrong with mutual shagging -- yeahah!

But, anyway, the point is these sites have turned the tables on women who would yank around the guys, especially the thoughtless bitches. To them, the field has been leveled by these websites and books and TV shows. Unfortunately, we've not taught our boys as much about being of good character with women, our televisions tell us that women are booty shaking sexual objects and that any skin = sex, sex, sex (as opposed to a more naturist approach) Hence, this info in the hands of immature males will most certainly be used wrongly on very nice girls.

Which brings us back to the timeless rule of why women were at one time admonished to be virtuous at all costs: Most men are without care, and will drop a load and walk away as fast as they can. Many others will offer the pretense of relationship (say all the right things) for a regular bang, but never with the belief that the relationship is anything other than a great fuck with someone whose cute enough, nice enough, but only temporary in the end.

That's blunt, but that's true. Not to say all guys. More than a handful are truly looking for a stable relationship with someone they truly love, but at age 18-25, expect a lot of the former rather than the latter.

My advice to both M and F looking for a real relationship is to hold off on the sex and date for a few months. This'll weed out the pure shaggers from both sides.

(don't get me wrong -- a good shag is deserved by everyone now and then, but we should be more honest up front. Misleading someone is not very nice....

I know that's a long ramble. In the end, we're all puzzles to ourselves and each other, and i don't mean to over generalize.