kitty24k

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Hi, I'm Kayleen. I'm a 20 year college student living on my own now. Here's my story:

I met this wonderful guy named Robby in Aug. 2006. It wasn't till Sept 8, 2006 him and I were to get together. He was 2 years older then me. Him and I worked together at Walmart. I thought he was really cute when I first met him and tried my hardest to get with him. It took a while because I felt like he wasn't into me like that.
After him and I got together, almost a month into the relationship he asked me to move in. I was so happy to be with him. He was a really sweet guy. We lived together for 4 months but in those 4 months things where a bit stressful for him and I. Mainly him. I was sick a lot and never knew why. I had to go to the hospital and found out I had something wrong with my overies. A week later, Robby kicked me out. He never knew why either. I moved back the next day because he wanted me back. I forgave him but felt hurt.
A few weeks later we went to N.C. for Thanksgiving with his family. I was still sick. I had a knot in my neck and let it go. I slept most of the time. His family didn't like that but I couldn't help it, I was sick. We got home. Robby told me that his sister asked him to move up there because her husbend was being sent off for the war. I wasn't aloud to come. He promissed that he wouldn't go, but two weeks before Christmas he told me he had changed his mind and told me he didn't love me anymore..... I was heart broken. Two days we were broke up and then he tells me that he was sorry that he does love me. I gave him another chance. A week after Christmas, Dec. 31, 2006, he left me to live with his sister. My heart was shattered, but him and I were going to try and work out a long dis. relatioship.
Jan. I had two surgries. The knot in my neck was a dead lympnal. I later found out that I had got herpes 1 from him. I was heartbroken. He wasn't there for either one of the surgries. I cried everyday for him to come home.
He broke up with me at the end of Jan. I didn't get to see him at all. Hardly talked to eachother. In June, he came down to see me. Told me he loved me and all. We got back together.
I was 19 at the time and I hated being alone. I had wanted a night of fun. I made out with a guy. Robby lost it. July, he came and got all of his stuff and told me he was done. I wanted to die. He told me he loved me.
I had lost him. We talked once in a while. He told me he still loved me but there were so many times he hurt me with word. Last month I met a man named Chris. Been with him since Oct. 5. We go to college together. Now, Robby wants me back. He tells me everyday he loves me and misses me. He beggs for another chance. I love him but I have Chris now. Chris is 24 and is in college. Robby is 23 and yea...... I was with Robby a year and a month, Chris and me a month now.

Now here is my problem: I love Robby and want to be with him. My family has said that they will disown me because of him if I go back to him. I also really like Chris and he's a wonderful guy but he has things that put me aside. I don't spend anytime with him. Not as much as I want to at least.

Who do I choose? Some one help me with this. I have no one to really talk to about this...... Please help me!

kulotsalot

So, by Robby you mean this dude Melciah who has his own thread, right?

kitty24k

Yes

Sagaris

So, by Robby you mean this dude "Robby" who has his own thread, right?

Sherlock Kulot strikes again !

Kayleen, you only live once , Robby is game , so go for it and Good Luck to you both.

hugooo

robby for sure

anamarie.villar

You choose whatever your heart desires.

rejekt

Do what you think is best tbh..

But my advice is.

1. Find someone who doesnt treat you like trash. It seems to me like Robby wasnt there when you needed him most.

2. You have been with your new man for 1 month, He hasn't hurt you yet. Just been busy maybe? 1 month isnt long, give it a longer chance.

Robby = Thumbsdown
Chris = Thumbsup

rejekt

OH and I need to add..

Fuck Robby for knowing he had herpes and not telling you about it, and passing it on to you.

TBH he can go to jail for that kind of thing.

He's the worst.

siopawman

yeah, its hard finding some you love and who also loves you.
but, F**k robby, he's done many inconsiderate things, who knows when he'll stop. if he really loves you, he'll not do those things. if he says he would change, feel it, i know you already know if he would really change or if its just a show off.

it's really up to you, but i'd go for chris.
nice guys finish last, but don't get something to knock you off the ground.