uacmarine

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Recently I was eating lunch and ran into a friend of mine who is also a good friend w/ my ex. My previous relationship seemed to be going well, at least until her dad fucked up their family situation...thats when she broke up with me. Now that I know that my friend and I are on good terms, should I ask about my ex and or if she knows her feelings at all. I'm kinda on middle ground on whether or not I want to get back w/ her, cuz im not entirely sure on everything...or should I just move on and find someone else? Thanks for the help everyone!

yellowfish

hey i often ask about the well bieng of my ex'es
you once cared for that person so why do you want to pretend she is not here anymore
i do not ask boyfriend girlfriend questions but i ask about well bieng

Anibal

Id say move on, asking about the ex is not a good idea (unless you remain friends, which I doubt because then you wouldnt have to ask someone else about how she is doing). If she tells you she is fine and seeing someone else, then you will get all jelous and start thinkin about her too much and asking too many questions, if she tells you she is doing bad you will try to be a knight in shining armor and go to her rescue (she doesnt want that or she would have called you allready) so that wont do any good. Either way its your decition, id advice you to move on and start something with someone new.

Best of luck

uacmarine

Thanks...i was just curious because i had that as an option but right now i have a plethora of options all around from old acquaintances from HS who happend in on my university this year to some ppl from classes that im thinkin about which also brings to mind another question...would it be better to get involved w/ a classmate near the end of the semester or should i go all out in the middle of it? thanks for all the help!

CD

If you ask when to get into a relationship, you may want to question why you want to be in one. Last time I checked, getting involved with a girl wasn't a matter of timing as much as it was who the girl was. Things take care of themselves when the timing is right. However, you don't generally decide when the time is right... it just happens that way.

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BackdoorJesus

I wouldn't be worrying about getting into any kind of steady relationship at all, if indeed you are in college now & have lots of options.

Enjoy yourself; play the field...you are immersed right now in a happy world of college-girl ass & LTR's are for suckers (and starry-eyed little girls).

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uacmarine

thanks...yeah, i guess i'll just let whatever happens happen...college is nice

Juan.©amaney

Born date 1987...maes you 20? You want to be in relationships why?!

No serious relationships until you can end one and NOT think about how they are doing.

Don't mess your good years up, use them wisely.

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uacmarine

sounds like a good plan

yellowfish

but on a diffrent note
im on speaking tearms with all my Ex's (except the bi#*h from hell)
but i never screwed any of them over we ended the relationships for reasons of uncompatibility as soul mates not because we cheated or anything daft.
its just the one i might just strangle if i see her again
and if she is a psycho feel nothing about never bringing them up in a conversation
but at the moment my wife and my ex are best friends and i am buisness partners with her boyfriend
my Ex also babysits for me and the wife

so EX'es dont need to be the enemy
just as long as you can realise that this persons friendship is better than getting your whick wet because its generaly the penis that causes problems

but i am a very lucky person i guess as i never have too many EX conflicts
(just that bi#*h/psycho from hell)