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10-20-2007, 06:56 PM
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Dude, we've all been there. The sooner you realize that life goes on without her, the better. Another thing that helps is to focus on all the negatives about her. The more that you can think of to help you get "pissed off" at her, the quicker you'll be ready to move on. We know it sucks. Hell, I was with a girl years ago that was my first sexually (same for her), we eventually lived together, and discussed marriage, kids, and other major stuff during our 3 years... It ended, and although I was crushed, you eventually move on. You realize what you liked and disliked about that relationship and you hopefully find someone else that is better. Focus on yourself. Get yourself a hobby or something. And the second that you start really enjoying being you and not having a girlfriend... is the second another one will enter your life. Another weird thing... if people ask how you're doing, tell them that you are actually doing very well (even if you aren't). It's amazing how women will get in closer to a guy that projects happiness without them. It's like a challenge to them or something. |
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10-22-2007, 11:43 PM
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In a situation like this, you call a friend or friends, leave your phone at home, get dressed up, pimped out, go to the nearest college bar and pick on the 6'es and 7'es to boost morale. You aren't looking for anything but a fuck. The sooner it happens, the quicker you'll get over it. Quit putting the pussy on the pedestal. Every time the weekend comes up and you feel sad because she isn't there...don't, you lost a bad one...and that's a good thing. I saw your picture in the mug thread. You aren't bad looking, just down on your luck. Cowboy up, son! Go ride a fatty! |
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10-23-2007, 01:54 AM
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, now what?
Damn, Juan! Go ride a fatty???
SCT/Grandam: Over the last year, I've been through a nasty, vicious, bullshit divorce. Does that mean I have tremendous amounts of great advice to hand out? Hell no! Just remember, time heals many wounds; when you are down and/or need a lift, post something! The folks here have REALLY helped me get through this in so many ways.. Everyone is here to help you; I hope you've seen that! Step up, put your chest out, and step forward! |
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10-23-2007, 02:26 AM
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Thanks for the morale booster idea! I'm already trying to make plans for this weekend, im going to the bars this weekend no matter if i have to go by myself. I had a girl invite me to the bars on saturday, but of course i went and stayed at my parents house to get my mind off stuff but that didnt work and I missed out on meeting this hottie...damn. Ive been there done that on the fat girls and I got a stalker out of the deal so I dont know if im quite ready to head down that road again and have 2 dilemas to get rid of.  Thanks for the pic comment, I just figured I was ugly. I went lame and signed up for hot or not and would you hit it, for a morale booster. It makes me feel a little better about myself knowing ive been rated good so far and got some comments. I have a counseling session today at 3pm, Im doing it for myself i have to get out of this deep state of depression and I think thats my gateway or with some depression drugs or both so im going to get that over with and get out of this hole first off. I've slowly come to the realization that I need to move on and cut my losses. Thats what my heart tells me to do then I had the devil saying no go back for more BS. You guys helped steer me in the right direction. Everyone knows how she was to me I talked to my boss about it today and she has heard my ex scream at me over the phone at work and she said one day she was going to ask me how i put up with that. She said I can do much better and that I need to cut my losses just as everyone said. My parents said they would disown me if I got back with her. I have one option I just gotta dig out of this hole first. Thank you guys and girls, esp Juan for the help your some true friends! |
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10-23-2007, 02:29 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear about your divorce, I can sympathsize with you, I hope you are doing better now! I thought I had it bad, but a divorce would be worse, esp if kids were involved. I'm lucky we didnt have a kid and get married like we planned. Ditto on the fine folks here, theres some true gems here and you dont find that everyday on a forum or out in public. The majority of people couldnt give a shit less about some other random persons problems. |
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10-23-2007, 10:24 PM
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, now what?
I went to counseling today, it hasnt helped anything because I had an hour appointment and that wasnt even enough time to tell her all my problems and stories. So im going back Fri, to get answers and help and medicine if they think i need it.
So she texts me today being rude becuase of course im ignoring her calls/texts,etc. So she starts texting me being rude and saying mean shit. She tells me about her and that guys sex life and how oh so good it was, much better than mine and all this shit, and that they are going to make beautiful babies together and blah blah. Shes fucking mean... I dont know what her problem is. |
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10-23-2007, 10:31 PM
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All stuff you don't need to hear. Is there any way you can get her # blocked? |
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10-23-2007, 11:23 PM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, now what?
See what I mean about changing your number.
fmb, fatty's are what we call practice girls. It's a win win situation. Just don't get stuck in the fatty zone cuz it's easy and it feels good. |
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10-24-2007, 01:43 AM
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02-08-2008, 03:35 AM
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, now what?
I gotta agree with these guys to a point...by calling her constantly, being totally depressed is only enforcing her decision to break it off...you're showing her that you have no confidence in yourself, but you should if you were able to have a 7 year relationship...those just don't come around, they take work..a hell of a lotta work. Acting jealous, asking about other guys is just another sign that you're not secure with yourself..I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you gotta get over it and move on...value yourself as much as you valued her, don't put her way up on a pedastal and treat yourself like s#$t...that'll only make her look down on you more...go out, have fun, do your own thing and maybe she'll realize how good things were with you before...goodluck I feel for ya, I'm in my own little predicament myself
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04-12-2008, 05:15 AM
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me, now what?
Don't know if this post is still active or not, but if it is go to the gym and lift weights!!
It is the best way to clear your mind, spirit and body. Also studies show that working out releases natural anti depressants into the body and who knows maybe you can meet a hottie there!!! |
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04-15-2008, 04:11 AM
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Yep i'm here thank you. I'm much better now. I graduated college in December and up and moved to Kansas City after that. That was the best move I made since there was 3 hours between me and her. Shit blew around for a while after I moved, she screwed with me. Prank called me, her new boyfriend called me threatening me. I dished some back in many ways and realized i'm just giving them what they want. It was rough for a while i'll admit and the move was the best thing I ever did and like everyone said time does heal wounds and meeting new women also helped get my mind clear. I realized theres so many better people out there. Hell I met this girl she drove hours to my birthday shindig I had at our new downtown entertainment/bar district in kc- she ended up spending almost 200 on me and herself that night between beer, shots and food. That was crazy.  So I stopped the talking all together and every once in a while (weeks or months) she will call or text me to see what i'm doing- being nosy. Haven't seen her face to face since December. She called April 3 to tell me happy birthday. Then, she text me a few days after out of the blue at 7am one morning and made it look like a mass text message saying shes pregnant and engaged. I assume it was to get under my skin, but I responded back with congratulations and it didn't bother me one bit i found it funny. She found her match, hes a real loony just like her. Other than that haven't talked. I realize i'm better off now. Wasn't a good relationship as you could tell, friends all hated her and questioned why i was with her....now I realize I should have listened instead of wasting all those years of my life. Oh well you live and learn and it only made me stronger. Either way, I moved to kc and moved on. Got a new badass job, new apartment, almost all completely new friends and just been loving life again. Met a bunch of new ladies and enjoying the single life now and believe it or not don't even want to get into a relationship for a while. Been having too much fun going to the bars and clubs, meeting new people and kicking it with friends. I'm 26, but still not ready to be tied down again, realize i still have a life to live. Thanks for everyones help and concern! It means a lot. |
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