TenaciousBlack

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So heres a fun discussion pertaining to threesomes. One of the seemingly most popular fantasies for me, and most heterosexual men that I know, seems to be a menage-a-trios with two women. It is a fantasy that is as old as time. My curiosity about threesomes is something that began in high school and, although ive had my experiences since then, it seems to be something that is reoccurring. I recently read this article on ThePeeq.com about the dynamics of threesomes and it got me thinking. I know that I feel comfortable approaching my girlfriend about a threesome with another woman. It doesnt seem like something most women would get terribly upset about. However, if she were to approach me about having a threesome with another man it probably would be something that would have me concerned. Im just wondering what others think about a situation like that and about threesomes within relationships in general. The good the bad, I want to hear it.

If youd like, reference this article for an idea of what I mean about the dynamics of a threesome: http://www.thepeeq.com/Features/Fic...e=Three-Way-Out

IheartSchrute

I just joined up...and haven't had time to say hi, but this caught my eye since I have recently tried the whole threesome thing...and yes it was great at the time and super hot. My Boyfriend is also damn lucky I am not the jealous type. This article was good though...I like that it was two guys...I don't think I would want to be part of something like that but I didn't realize that this situation happens as well.

fmb

At times, this may go both ways (no pun intended); if you're asking your woman to participate in this, there is always the chance she may ask for her own fantasy version. I guess this has to come down to the "trust" issue and other security aspects of the relationship.

tarun_sharma

I'd love to be in one as long as the girl was'nt my gf !!:D

JacksonAces

The more I read at that site the less and less I like it. The writers there seem to have some sort of angle on everything, but it's a very odd one. I can't quite pin it down, but the whole site seems very elitist.

Anyways, back to the topic. My gf and I have recently been discussing a threesome, though with two girls, not guys. For me, I guess that is a good thing, as I really wouldn't know what to do with another guy in the room. Not so much from the homophobic angle, but more in the "I-don't-really-want-to-get-in-the-way-so-I'll-just-watch-I-guess" angle. The easiest thing to do is talk to her about it. Talking is not doing, and this topic is really very easy to talk about if you bring it up in the right way.

My personal favorite is the whole "some of my friends were talking about this while you weren't around, and I wanted to get your input..." thing. Just see what she thinks. My gf and I talked, and while she would enjoy a threesome with another girl, she feels like if there were two guys, she would be stretched a little thin, and would feel overwhelmed. The important thing is to make sure everyone there is attracted to everyone else, and is comfortable.

Remember this, as it is very important in both 2 and 3 person sexual activities. Men don't need any input from their emotional sides to have sex; It can be a purely physical, biological thing, although it is less fun. Women on the other hand, require emotional and mental interaction in order to enjoy sex. It has to be there, on some level, in some form, or the female human brain simply cannot reach orgasm. What all this means is that in a threesome, if you decide to do it, you have to make sure that your gf is 110% comfortable with what is going to happen, and is as excited about it as you are.

And you know you are.

~jack

figjam

Many years ago I asked my gf for a 3some. After some time, I offered a buddy of mine join in to give her some fun with two men. She absolutely loved it and we repeated it many times until he got a gf of his own who he had join us in a night of groupsex that I still fantasise about.

davemo2us

This. It can be very intoxicating for a woman to know that she is desired by more than one man and if you are comfortable with your sexuality and your body it can be a lot of fun. You will know with in about 10 seconds weather or not this is for you. I can't speak of 2 women at once, I don't have any experience with that and some women, mine being one, don't really like the idea of you banging some other girl in front of them. Yes it's a double standard, but psychologically women are usually just thinking about having a really good time when it's 2 guys. When it's 2 girls, it's competition. Anyways that's my 2 cents from my experience.

mt4p

From my experience, it is waayy more better if the one woman is into the other woman more for the girl on girl experience. First, the pressure is off of you to please both, as only one woman really wants to be pleased by you. Second, it is amazing to watch another woman try to get another woman hot! I mean, it is the one spectator sport that you can just jump into at any time!!

Gotta love it!

figjam

Yeah there's nothing quite like watching how well and how quickly a woman can get another woman off! :p

Emergancy Exit

my girlfriend tells me she fantisizes about herself and me and another girl and she feeds my whole threesome fantasy when she tells me this.but sometimes she says she wouldent do it and other times she says she totaly wouldent so time will tell.

i think it would be fun but i dont NEED/REquire it.

facepeeler

what they say in the heat of the moment and what they actually do are two ENTIRELY different things. lots of girls like to talk about it, but that's about the extent of it

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Devone16

I personally couldn't imagine another guy bangin my wife out in front of me even though I used to have 3-somes all the time before i was married. I guess because i can have sex and it mean nothing, however when women has sex there is almost always an emotional connection. I don't bring up the 3-some situation with my wife, because i don't want her to bring it up with me. But who knows what may happen on that random vacation trip.

nov980

you just have to keep the ratio strong. always more pussy than cock.

jShizz

I think it takes a special person. Threesomes as a part of a relationship can be tricky.

First, you have to think if it is going to be someone you know (which can lead to awkwardness down the road) or a random (which can lead to the obvious health issues)?

As others mentioned, 100% communication has to be in effect. There can be no questions after the fact like "well, I didn't know you were going to do THAT to her!". Be upfront with your intentions, it will make it more pleasurable for all involved and most likely cause less problems down the road.

I don't see any problem with it as long as anyone is on the same page. Just like any other sexual act, as long as you approach it responsibly, it can be good times.