King Of Queens

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Whats up people, the question is am i being to horny? Meaning i've been with my chick for about 4 years. She's ok looking and sex is fine. but for the past year i feel like i need to get some strange ass. I look at porn and hot pictures yea yea..but lately its the girls i see. I see a decent looking chick and all i can think about is how she would be in bed. I feel like i want my chick to look like a porn star. nice big tits and a perfect face, long blonde hair shit like that. I feel like a dirty old man when i see chicks. I'm not married but i feel like i am because i'm fantasizing about other girls. Is there anything i can do here? or should i just beat off and accept i'm in a relationship?

kulotsalot

So... I take it you have a porn star dick? No? Then it's a bit much to expect your girl to look and act like a porn star, huh?

King Of Queens

whoa..i definetly dont have a big dick..i dont think anyway. and i dont want my chick to act like a porn star. i want her to look like one. i feel like i want to be with any other chick, like i'm missing out on some hot ass chick i could be with but i'm not because i'm with my girl. i know this shit sounds normal or maybe not, but is there anyone else like this?

DDGuy

I can sympathize with you for sure. There are times when I seriously wonder if all the p0rn I am exposed to makes me have unreal expectations from my wife of 12 years....sure it does !! But then as Kulots pointed out (rather rudely at that ...), p0rn is just that....a fantasy....life is different, the quicker you get that and ACCEPT that (rather than harboring a guilt about it), the better for you and your relationships..

Gee, if I got a $ every time I saw Erica Campbell and wanted to fuck her brains off, I would be a VERY rich man today...do I want my wife to be like her?...sure as hell....do I resent that she is not?...do I go out trying other women till I find one like her?.....hell no !!! I am a very very faithful person despite having more P0rn than having the time to see in a lifetime... you can be too....its all between the ears.

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King Of Queens

thanks DDGuy i definitely hear what your saying. i appreciate the feedback. this is what i'm afraid of..that if by some luck of the God's i do bump into some hot chick and she wants to get to know me..i might just let that happen you know? i feel like this is a craving i need to feed. i'm like searching for some hot chick i've seen before! dam i got problems.. *sigh*

whereigetoff

This is the damaging affect of porn on relationships and real people's sex lives. Porn tells us that every attractive woman has huge tits with hard nipples and a pussy that stays wet all the time and who loves getting cum splattered all over her face and smiles up at you as you blow a wad in her nostril. Once you've viewed enough porn then anything you get in real life just doesn't seem as exciting anymore.

Porn is not real sex. If you think you can handle a porn-like girlfriend then be prepared for her to be immersed in the other aspects of a porn lifestyle, too. You want her fucking all kinds of strange guys or do you want her for yourself?

The odds are since you're not married and you've been dating for 4 years that you've come down with "I could do better"-itis.

The truth is, though, either you want to stay with your girl or you don't. Either you're willing to settle or you're not.

I was married for 8 years when I came down with it and I spent the next 5 years determining that in fact I really could do better before I divorced the bitch. During that 5 years I did do better. In fact I did better a LOT!

You have relationship decisions to make. Quit or commit.

mainstay

Well, I think you need to settle down a little. It's not un-usual for a guy to lust after another babe, but do you really want to throw away what you've got just for those few mins of pleasure. Remember, Porn is just a fantasy world & the chicks don't really look that way in the real world. You probably meet babes that actually look better everyday!!

Just like the babe Erica Campbell that DDGuy was referring to, you probably would'nt notice her if you bumped into her. She's one of my favorites as well, but I can separate fantasy from reality. If you want some "strange" that bad, breakup with your Girlfriend!




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BackdoorJesus

dude if you're twenty-four & you've been with some girl, the same girl, since you were twenty, it's only natural and right for you to want something else if for nothing else but to see what else is out there. Unless she is physically phenomenal & does everything for you sexually that you have ever or will ever want, I say dump that girl (or 'take a break', as the women often try to do with us guys) & find that strange and keep on fucking the strange until you find the one worth staying with. Any way you go at your age the last thing you should be thinking about is settling & settling down.

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fmb

Listen to the advice. If you really feel you should go elsewhere, go. If you go that route, leave the one you'e with before you tap the new chick. Why do that? Remember, some fellow after you is going to deal with the mental baggage you probably helped create. In the end, it's the right thing to do with (and for) her.

What's the school solution? It's about "opportunity lost" and "opportunity gained". If you stay with her, what do you lose? You lose the ability to have random hot sex with women that want to have sex with you! If you leave her, what do you really gain? Steady person, someone you know and knows you, etc.

That random hot sex thing does have a ring to it.................................

King Of Queens

Hey thanks guys..its all great advise..backdoor jesus i think your have the best point - i'm young and i should get out there and see whats actually out there for me and whereigetoff your right also, i need to make a decision on what i want.. thanks again and this really does help. hey kulotsalot you busy later? >:P

kulotsalot

honey you're on the wrong coast, otherwise...



you've gotta remember, porn = great lighting, makeup, photoshop, etc. a "regular" girl would be VERY hard pressed to compete with that perfect look (and you guys wonder why we have body image issues??). real life = uneven boobs, skinny calves, bellies and cellulite. if you DO find a chick that is porn star gorgeous, chances are she wouldn't even give you the time of day.

not saying settle, i'm just saying have a little dose of reality with your morning OJ, eh???

however, if you're just looking for something different, not necessarily a super mega upgrade, then you may have a chance.

King Of Queens

thanks kulo i understand i shouldnt expect to find a girl who looks like a porn star and like you say she wouldnt give me the time of day and i dont think i could fight off every other guy trying to hump her leg. but you guys have to see that i'm not raising my standards..i'm saying that porn and seeing hot girls has got me very jealous and what i really need to know is how the hell do i deal with this? I dont want to break up with my girl becuase i want to go exploring. She treats me good and i shouldnt ruin a good thing right? Everyone's points are all true and alot of diffrent sides could be looked at..but what do you do to contain yourself?

mainstay

When I said "I think you need to settle down a little". I did'nt mean to settle down literally......I meant to just "chill" a little & think things through. You have been given some very wise advise in this thread, but in the long run it's all up to you!!!!



















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King Of Queens

your right mainstay..thanks again.