brutalpunishmen

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i was just wonderin wat the girls like the most from a guy during sex.....

i mite b speaking for myself but i get turned on by turning my girl on and i wanna take it up a step and have sex with her she thinks shes erady

im 7 1/2 inches wich isnt bad

Queso

the size doesn't matter if you don't know what to do with it though.

brutalpunishmen

very tru but size plays a good role if the guy is inexperienced....

a small guy that dont kno how to work it isnt better than a big one with no skill

skept

Size doesn't matter mate. If your too big and don't know what to do with it then you can hurt the girl.

Every girl likes something different so just experiment and have fun.

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kulotsalot

Once and for all, can we just deal with this size issue and move on? It really irritates me whenever I see posts like this. "Well, I'm not sure I know what I'm doing, but I have a 7-inch penis so at least I got bragging rights!"

Jesus H Christ! Can we please stop with the measuring tape BS?!

Does size matter? To some extent, it does. BUT it is not a magic number; rather, it is a range of acceptable or preferred lengths and girths - not too small that you feel nothing (is it in yet?!), and not too big that you'd need a freakin' warm up session in order to loosen up your vajay-jay.

If you're in that range, (and I assume most people are because, I mean, really, how many of you guys have porn star dicks, huh?!) then you pretty much start out with the same sorta equipment that every other Joe Schmoe has, and this is where technique, experience etc. come into play.

People just need to stop obsessing about that extra half an inch or whatever. Unless there is an obvious size difference from the rest of the guys she's been with, she's probably gonna think "ok, average, I know how to work that" and then fuggedaboutit. I don't even know why it's such a big deal. I know I bitch about my boobs a lot, but honestly, I'm not concerned about it at all when the clothes start coming off. Then again, I don't really fuck with my boobs, do I, so maybe that doesn't really equate, coz boobs are kinda just an auxiliary to the whole sexin' process.

Hmmm...

Bigeme

thank you kulots really. I'm tired of half the posts on here saying they have a 7-7.5" dick.

Honestly, I think girls like it when you actually care about them and not just about the pussy or making them feel good. And I promise you'll like it better if you care about them on a serious level than if you just think that physicality will make it worth while. Make sure she is really ready and not trying to make you happy.

Queso

again, not necessarily. I know a guy who was very well gifted in the size area and still couldn't do shit with it.

that and smaller guys generally try harder and therefor are usually better

clamsrus

Hmmm....so it's not the size of your calves...it's the strut in your stride...

I must say though Kulots.....as i end up doing a lot of work in this area with women...that the size of the woman's vagina functionally matters....and that the vast majority of women are hopelessly ignorant of the functional significance of their vulval anatomy...or what to do about it.

There is a huge difference for both the man and woman dependant on perineal fitness...some trim taut and triffic dancer, athletic, or fit woman is going to have a far better time of it than some semiobese unfit and multiparous women with pelvic floor tone destroyed by childbirth, and with a gash like a rip in a circus tent.

A few days ago I had a woman consult me with discomfort during and after intercourse, and when I questioned a bit further it transpired that she has a cervical prolapse which is classed by the medics as non significant, but because the cervix drops backwards toward the posterior wall of the vagina, as he thrust up into her his penis hits the cervix and rams forward repeatedly shunting the urethra and the trigone of the bladder and resulting in irritation of the structures, making her feel as though she has a bladder infection, and causing a discharge. Her GP(female!) has just given her antibiotics!!

My advice....blame it on the kids and get over it...or go to the gynae and get yourself "rehung"...come back and I'll get her pelvic floor muscles working again....and then get on with a happy sex life.

She thought it was his fault because he was too big....but didn't enjoy sex obviously but said to me...."I do it for him to keep him happy" I said ...."Well, if your perineal muscles were working, and your uterus wasn't busy trying to follow gravity and fall out of you, then you'd be tight enough to make his eyes water, and your orgasms would get back to the old earth shattering variety that kept you cumming back for more!"

A well toned and healthy vag will take one finger comfortally, will relax to take two after a minute or so, when aroused and lubricated will take anything from a pencil dick to a pogo stick..and on special occaisions or with practice will take a babies head or a fist.
With women who say they just want to be filled up and stretched....I point out that their anatomy can stretch to just about any size, and it is only their muscle tone and control that creates the intense sensations. If they don't want to go the distance to get things rehab'd..they I suggest they get really creative with oral and mix it up with a dildo.........I don't know too many partners who haven't thought that was as sexy as all hell.....her bringing herself off while she sucked him dry.....lol

With guys the only complaint I've had from the women is if they are particularly short and can't use certain positions because they slip out....eg...doggie, or cowgirl when there is less close contact and more vigorous movement...so i guess a longer dick is more versatile when it comes to the vaginal olympics.

CD

Girls like the guy to take charge. Girls like variety in the bedroom, and a guy that can use every tool in his disposal (ie tongue, fingers, AND penis)... not just his member. Girls like to feel special; that you have given them something that no other guy will be able to do as well.

But turning her on turns you on? really now? Is there a guy who doesn't like turning on his girl? That's like saying I really like it when she wants the sexin. You know... as opposed to raping her against her will.

BTW I'm 11.5 inches which isn't too shabby.

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yellowfish

alll i can say was last night my lady was not faking
the bed squuueked she squirted i squirted there was plenty of "ooooh and ahhhh's"
i would say that the most erotic part of it was the connection we had
it wasnt just sex
it was loving sex
connected sex

thats what she craves
and a lady will only truly open up to you in that way when there is a trust and a bond that they feel is strong enough to last

tarun_sharma

yup..most of the women I've known have only been interested in the 'connected sex'..not just the wham bam thank u ma'am type stuff. and yeah size if average, is adequate for most women.

Wraith64

CD nailed it (pun intended) on this one.
On size:
I have been around the block a few times and am proud to say I fall squarely in the "average" category in size (- no need to spoil all the illusions since it seems that average around here is about 7.5 inches).

I have yet to have a woman whip out a tape measure before sex (you should put yours away too) or show any real interest in the whole size thing. In fact, what I have found in at least deeper sensual relationships, most women who examine you at all are more interested in the whole "growing hard" phenom. then in the end size. As a side note, whenever size was ever discussed at all, every woman I have been with thought I was bigger then I was indicating either I was pretty good or all women have problems with spatial relations like the old joke says. I prefer to believe the former.

You need enough to use it right and that is not that much really since most everything that feels good to a woman is less then an inch deep (lips, clit, perineum, etc.) Penetration is more about the idea and the outer sensation then it is about knocking her cervix over the fence... and as stated in earlier posts... too large can be painful and have a very negative outcome.

So if you really are larger then average the first "take away" from this thread should be to watch out for the "legs behind the ears" types of positions which serve to shorten the distance between vagina and uterus because the screams you hear will probably not be the good kind if you hit the her cervix.
The second is: What sex is best for a woman is what she likes the best... ask her, experiment with her, and (a little TIP---> )do something a little different each time.

Ex: My current GF likes to experiment, likes to use her hands on herself - at the same time sometimes, gets in the moment and will try most anything at least once but will let me know almost immediately if something is not good. She only feels comfortable enough for that because I told her that is what I want most. She knows how she feels is as important or more important to me then how I feel. That makes for some hot sex and a very willing partner.

We are only able (because of RL) to see each other a few days out of the week and so she knows there will be sex... probably several times. That could get very old and boring very quickly without romance - so I mix it up - Call her a few minutes before arrival and tell her you will walk in the door and throw her over the couch right then and hit it (from behind using with appropriate foreplay for lubrication purposes of course- given that few minutes she may already be wet in anticipation).

Next time, have dinner, chat, catch a flick, head to bed and start with simple kisses - just on the mouth, focused only on her lips and the kiss to start and go with the flow as the sexual tension builds. Tried and true if you can kiss - if you can't ... learn.

Try different positions try simple ones that don't require "cirque de soleil" contortion training to accomplish at first - focus on where you put your unit and what it is brushing against rather then the "mighty thrust"... it has its time and its place. Try toys, lubes, etc... keep it different and keep the focus on her and she will more then likely return the favor happily and vigorously.

And after you have bent each other like a pretzel... go back to plain ol' missionary every once in a while, because you know what... it works.

That was way longer then I intended...my apologies in advance.

Devone16

WOW Wraith. Sounds like you put some thought into this one. I agree with you and you are repped for you insight. It is true, guys love to please women!!

LisaB

Attention to detail! whatever you're doing just be responsive to what she's doing. that's the best advice I can give.