yeyinde89

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I've done like everyone says ask your girlfriend different things about what she likes and how she likes it and then do you try it a different way that you've done it....right so i did that, but what i don't understand is that when i asked my girlfriend if she would try it doggy-style or anal, she said NO!

Well i was wondering was that is there a way that i can get my girlfriend to try those different positions with me or is it a lost cause and not try it again?


I'm 18 and she is 19. And what is it about anal and girls, does it hurt or what? Because this happened to me with my last girlfriend.

kulotsalot

does it hurt? my guess is, it does. not being a smart ass here, but if you're actually curious, why don't you try it? i'm sure you'll be able to answer your own question after...

CD

Doggy style shouldn't be hard to talk her into... as long as your dick is in the right hole. I've only been with 2 girls that took anal, and it hurt them both. However, the last time it happened, she asked me to put it there, so I'm thinking that it's gonna have to be her call if you ever get that. And if you are upset that she said anything other then "please stick it in my butt", I'd agree with kulots and say find something about the size of your penis and try to work that into your butt. If you don't enjoy it, and you probably won't, I'd suggest not bringing it up again.

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justlookn

I have found alot of that comes with the mood, and trust. She will have to be able to totally relaxed if not, it probably wont happen. I have been with my wife for over 12 years and she just started wanting to try it. Be patient you have alot of life ahead of you and if it does not happen with her then it dont happen.

Queso

no clue, I love them both.

I can understand why a girl wouldn't like anal. physiologically it's the 'exit hole' whereas the vag is the 'enter hole' and they just get the idea in their head that that's how it's got to stay. Other girls (and some guys) might just not want to do it because it seems unclean or it'd make them feel dirty, both mentally and physically. And others still probably don't want to do it because they're afraid it will hurt.

Now I've no clue why a girl wouldn't like doggy. I don't get it that way often but it's my favorite. The only reason i could think of that a girl wouldn't want to do it is that it seems to reach deeper you can hit different spots that way and i guess it might hurt the girl. Also some find it degrading for some reason.

try getting her drunk and flipping her over in the heat of the moment?

yeyinde89

Well i asked her what she thought about it again and she just said "i don't know i just don't want to do it." Well i tried to persay her to try it but she just said no.

CD

Let it go then... continue to use your finger in the area, but only for a light pressure. Maybe one day you'll hit jackpot, but any coercion to do it will only make it less likely to happen.

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Draggon

I have experience with women that don't like the position because they have a mental block against being dominated, and Doggie style is the most male dominant position. It usually ends up giving both partners the best feeling, but rather then trying to push her into it, try other positions that lets you enter from behind like that (Spooning on the bed, cowgirl etc.). If she loves those then you may be able to work doggie in. I've also found that doggie where both partners are standing up (Like in the shower) can be amazing but you have to work the trust factor first. Don't push anything on her and let her trust you sexually before offering anything else. And if she says no then drop it!

As far as anal goes...it's all mental for the woman. As Queso said, it can give a woman great pleasure, but a lot of women see it as dirty, painful or again submissive. Being that 90% of sex for women seems to be mental they need to want it (Ask for it) for them to truly enjoy it and maybe want it again. I've only ever talked one girl into trying it, and it took a lot of time and patience and caring before she would (It basically took her enjoying anal play and getting to the point of wanting more).

Good Luck.

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basik68

like everyone else has said anal is definitely something she will have to want.

but like queso said try getting her drunk...or at least just try it in the heat of the moment

women will do amazing things once they succumb to lust

ChevyChase

No, what is it about anal and guys thinking they need their girl friends to have it to have a fufilling expierence?