blazer77

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I have be married going on three years and I can never seem to get a blow job anymore. I'm not naive and think I should get one every week or even every month but she is not offering at all. I go the extra mile if you know what I mean but the favor is not returned. Any tips from the married people out there. I would love to hear a women's perspective. I know its not the most enjoyable think for you ladies, is there I can do?

wingshot

EDIT CD: smart ass replies are not welcome here.

Queso

watch the smart ass remarks.




have you tried talking to her about it?

waterbottle

probably want to eat her out and shove it in her face, maybe she'll feel obligated? get in the 69 position, and see what happens.

good luck.

tres28ram

The best way to get one, is to ask.....

DDGuy

Well....I can so see your pain....it just happens...some women are just built not to like the BJ...they can be worked into in their younger years but not after a few years of marriage...i

f someone had a fixed solution for it...he will be a very rich man.....

do the standard things - have a talk with her....make sure she is relaxed while having sex...do long and slow foreplay.....but there is no guarantee that it will work if yr wife is just turned off from BJ

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jeffc574

Chances are, your wife is of the BJs are for girlfriends not wives frame of mind. There are a lot of women like that. Try talking to her or some sex games. There is a book with 1001 sexy scenarios in it. Each page is a sealed envelop. Check Amazon. One of those pages certainly will get you a BJ.

blazer77

Everyone says talk to her.. I've tried and she just dosen't like to do it. What's so terrible about it is that she is fantastic at it. I will just try talking to her untill I'm blue in the balls...I mean face.

michaeljohn

you know, stop thinking of you. think of her. go down on her and lick her pussy like it has never been licked before.

there is an old song "Sit on my face"

Lyrics:
Sit on my face, and tell me that you love me.
Ill sit on your face and say I love you too.
Oh, everything will be fine
When we're practicing 69....

If she won't give you head after you drive her wild orally, well, forget it. She will miss what you did and change her mind soon enough.

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toomasio

wash and shave....

or do better work on your wife. she probably just doesnt want to do it to you because you dont do it right for her...or she just doesnt liek it. i dunno.

Bigdog187

Easy two step method:

1. Eat some beaver, as often as possible and until she can't take it anymore and begs you to stop.

2. After practicing step one regularly for awhile, ask.

If she still refuses, then you've got a real problem, seek professional counseling.

spanx24

I love to give bj, i have been in a rela. for 7 years and he is the one tired of sex and bjs, but hey i think im an oddball when it comes to women....

BlackPearlSpace

yup, allot of women think once they're married they don't have to do that anymore.

too bad for you, sounds like you're stuck with one of these. I don't have any advice, anything I have to say is really just about how I think this mentality is bullshit false advertising.

look, if you don't like doing something, don't friggin do it. I don't care, just don't make me think you like it, and all the while it's some huge chore. and I can totally see how that's all it would be if you don't like it. it wouldn't be much fun if it was a chore.

whatever, just another thing typical women do to manipulate us. honestly, the equivalent would be to stop buying her things once you're married. she says anything, just be like "oh, I don't have to do that anymore, I already have you, why should I."

you know it's true, you know it's the same thing.

the only thing you can do is talk to her, and find out why she feels this way. pure conjecture, but I think the wominz feel this way because they see it as submissive, and subversive, something they only need to do to land the catch; and that doing it after is debasing. good luck, but if this is what she thinks, it's gonna be deeply ingrained from a young age, and may be difficult to overcome.

good luck. maybe a little tit for tat?

yammy

Does she let you go down on her? If not, she may have an issue with her own cootchie -- which a whole lot more ladies are insecure about than most guys realize. 69 can freak out a lot of gals because they're really insecure about flashing their buttholes and are worried about being so exposed.

IF that's the case, she may not want you to feel like you gotta give it to her bhecasue she gave it to you. If that's the case, make sure she knows you love going down on her and everything she's got in the junk department. That includes telling her that looking at her stuff turns you on to no end, and that you love the taste and smell -- all of it!

Otherwise, If she's refusing to talk about it, either you have a problem or she does.

1. she should be honest with you why she doesn't give 'em, and willing to talk about it.
2. be aware some women have had bad experiences with BJs when they were younger -- e.g. semi forced to give a BJ by douchebag guys and too scared to say no for a variety of reasons, and its an unpleasant reminder. If she's your wife, she ought to explain that though.
3. you need to explain to her, regardless if she wants to talk about it it, how you feel about it.
4. she's given you the bait and switch, and you can take it or leave it. If she refuses to talk about it (and you gotta reassure her she can talk about it and you're not gonna lose your shit) it may be a sign of other issues beyond just B.J.s

It is kinda funky... you don't want to stake a relationship over BJs, but then again, there's more to this than just BJs if its verbotten to talk about.