KarlMiller132

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Well, I read both of the threads on female ejaculation and was quite intrigued. I had heard about it but didnt know it was possible for any girl (there may be some mixed thoughts here). Anyway, my girlfriend has just started a new job and is a little stressed (not too bad) and I know sex had always been a great release for her. In my web searches about female ejaculation, I found more about full body orgasms and things like that where they start to convulse and watnot bc its so intense. I guess my question is mainly for the girls out there, especially those that can ejaculate or have had "full body orgasms", what can be done differently or additionally to bring on these higher level orgasms. As far as the g-spot, what kind of strokes do you like, how hard ect... I talked to her about ejaculation and about trying it, we gave it a go sorta last time I was there and shes been doing more g-spot stimulation when playing with herself but just says she never gets the "i have to pee" feeling people were talking about. So are there any other cues that she maybe could pick up on or any special techniques. As far as the whole body orgasm, they say you can have multiple orgasms back to back ect... I can get her to cum twice in one session, I think 3 was my best (was a little drunk) but they were talking about waves of 5 or more. Is that really possible? Any advise/ideas would be great!

any successful techniques/ ideas from the guys out there would be appreciated as well.
Thanks
K

blazer77

R there any women on this site? I would like to know also.

toomasio

lots of foreplay... listen to her body reactions. get her on top and you do all the thrusting. you'll have to grab her sides. do small hard thrusts, then move to a faster pace. you will be constantly hitting the g spot.

works for me...make sure you do it when she is REALLY stressed.

yammy

really, for the waves of orgasms, you really have to get her to totally let go. That means you gotta be super confident and take charge of totally getting her to relax and building her up slowly, and backing off, and building up a little more and backing off... repeating until she's begging.

That means not digging in to sex -- it means just running your fingers around her body without even touching her aureole or her nipples for at least fifteen minutes (the accidental brushing across is OK), or her pussy for 20-25, or longer. Work on the back of her neck and her butt, the backs of her legs, and the crease of her crotch, touching very lightly with your fingers. Watch her breathing. Drive her mad. Eventually work in her breasts and then her nipples, but build up to them more and more, backing off before your return for longer periods. Eventually lick her nipples. But always let her body tell you what she's feeling... No deep breathing?? then you're too early.

Give her oral sex before you fuck her, but don't let her come. And don't just mow right in when you start. Tease her whole body with your mouth, maybe drifting down (back and forth) from her nipples -- and build up to her pussy. Tease around her pussy before you move into her lips. Don't just hit her clit right off, but tease around it for a while... Touch it, back off and do something else, and then return, shortening the time away from it each break until your all over it. Again, don't let her come. Back off if she's about to and just massage her or something, knowing you can build her back up again.

When your in her, don't just go to town and pound away... Start slow.... Do a couple of pokes just with just your head (no shaft), then remove it. Do like ten short short head only pokes and only one full length penetration, and then do 9 short pokes, and 2 full strokes, then 8 and 3, then 7 and 4, etc. She'll get the rhythm and the anticipation will drive her wild with expectation, and she'll know you're in charge of her totally.

Keep in mind you're in control and pushing her buttons... The longer you can keep her from coming, the better. Eventually you'll drive her insane and she'll want to just totally fuck the shit out of you, but don't let her do that too early. Your in charge, and she'll thank you for making her wait later.

Play the game that way, and after her first O you'll be able to lead her back to a second very quickly, and third into consecutive waves.

Key is, though, she's gotta believe you're in the zone and lose all her worries and inhibitions. The other key is you gotta be careful not to lose your own nut. Its not so hard if you're totally focused on giving her the orgasms of her life.

Good luck.

(as for the squirting, you're best to ask the ladies. They have the secret, and I'm working on that myself. )

bogaboga

wow... thanks! I never knew it was so mathematical.

Bigeme

Okay, I have to say something. I'm tired of reading the stuff on this site. I mean the stuff about actually intercourse. A lot of the relationship stuff is valid.

Here are my thoughts.

1) If you are regularly having intercourse (insertion) for more than 20 mins, there is something wrong. I have done it before, I'm not doubting your sexual prowess, but doesn't it get annoying/painful for the girl?

2) Of course teasing a girl is going to get her more arroused. If you touch her all over her body without stimulating her erongenous zones she is going to be highly aroused. You are the same way I gaurentee. Ninety percent of the advice about sex is "get her interested first, you know she wants some attention to more than her vagina".

3) If you can't fucking type don't ask questions. (I realize that I probably spelt/CAPiTalZed wrong earlier, but I'm drunk and not writing "u no I getz lotz of sEcKs")

4) Its really not necessary to tell us how good you are in the sack. I don't care how long you last (like I said before I refuse to believe any girl wants you to last more than 20 mins) or how many times you can make her come (she's probably faking).

This is probably going to get deleted anyway, but to answer your question:

Squirting is fake. Anyone that tells you differently works for the porn industry. Numerous scientific studies have show that it is loss of bladder control or intentional. While it is possible to have a "ejaculation" its not nearly the volume you think of.

I don't believe that it is necessary to have the peeing sensation to know you are hitting the g-spot. Also, I don't think multiple orgasms or orgasms at all are for every girl.

My last girlfriend couldn't find any release from clitoral stimulation and didn't know anything about her anatomy, but I could always tell when I was hitting her G-spot. As far as I can tell the best way is to have her on top slightly leaning towards you and you thrust towards a few inches above your head. This should get you in the ball park and follow her indications. Always toward the top of your head though never towards her. It'll pay off for her and as far as I'm concerned there's not much better than flipping her over after shes gone and pounding away while she has a look of bliss on her face.

hoki

OK, squirting is NOT fake. My last 4 girlfriends and a a few bed-buddies all did it. Unless you've been it and seen it, don't say it's a loss of bladder control - cos it ain't. Sure sometimes there maay be an amount of urine in the ejaculate, but believe me - it ain't pee !!
Everyone seems to be coming from an intercourse angle - my experience has been way better with a huge amount of tension building ie:all-day play. And use ur fingers as you can hit that spot wayyyy more efficiently. Take control and help her to drop & lose control - cos that's true - it is one of the main ingredients.
Also, don't let her orgasm - even a small one can break the buildup. If you do penetrate, don't come, don't let her come - it's all about the build-up. When you are getting her to that prime spot - you may have to become a bit aggressive with your hands and fingers ..... tell her to hold her orgasm as long as she can, feeling it building and when she can't take anymore - tell her to push .... don't just let an orgasm happen, get her involved in thrusting the orgasm out if her body. That'll usually do it.

Peace, good luck, have fun

senseimike2007

from an old married guy's perspective I'd wager that the technique depends mostly on the individual girl, my wife in particular will get off most intensely from moves that only brought about a minor reaction from past girlfriends, you just have to "poke around" and figure out what works, there are certain techniques that always work to insure good sex, most of these are fairly widely understood, use these with her while experimenting to see what she responds best too, once you figure out her inividual likes and dislikes, you can hit home runs right and left and be remembered as the best lay she ever had

senseimike2007

that's true also, build up is wonderful, I like to leave my wifey on the verge for a while, then when she gets to that point of wanting it so bad she's virtualy in tears I let it rip and she practically explodes, but again, you gotta feel this out a bit at first, if you know what she responds too, you can use that to your advantage.