ekawpu

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well, i havent had sex very often, anywayz, hooked up with a girl last night, and i shot too early in my book, (few mins) we waited another 15mins and then again, after only about 5 mins, i went again... i would of thought that even after the first time, i would of lasted longer...

tips? help? recommendations?

mighty

Eat some peanuts-

seriously- it has a mineral/vitamin that will help you stay hard...
And Stop thinking so much- When you have sex a man can only use 1 head at a time so use the one up top to control the one below!!

wingshot

Third time is a charm.....also try focusing on her pleasure not yours.

CD

In his defense, it sometimes can be the girl that can prevent you from going the distance. With my first gf, I could last on average around 40 minutes (we took each others virginity). Then she learned a trick from a female friend of hers... I'd last no more then 1 minute after she started to use it. It was only when she needed a quickie or to rest her g-spot. The second girl, 40-50 minutes. My last girl, 30-50 minutes... sometimes over an hour.

Now here's the kicker: I was with someone else once in early December and again on New Years Eve. This girl, basically liked what she saw and proceeded to buy me LOTS of drinks, and then took me to her place (both times) to molest the shit out of me. However, she was extremely knowledgable about what feels good to a guy, and I swear I wasn't lasting worth a shit. She had pussy control that would make Prince jealous... not only that, but she gave me a better handjob then I give myself! Hell, her mouth was absolutely amazing as well! I don't know how to explain it, but I've never felt like I couldn't last a good while until I met her.

Long story short.... she may have a few things she's doing that cause you to not last long (these things exist, but a few girls just don't know about them). Whether she knows it or not, if she arches her back and does something to her vaginal muscles, you are going to be a minute man just like every other guy.

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yellowfish

is that what my wife is doing
sometimes i notice that when she doesnt have much time i end up finishing quick and cant fathom how it happened

CD

yep! Anytime a girl can go with me for about 75 minutes and then the next night get me off in 10... it's the trick.

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Emergancy Exit

i last on avrg a good 45 mins the 1st go around of the day/night and the last 10 mins (g/f has already had about 3 orgasms, sometimes more sometimes less i have given her 6before but i have no idea how i managed that) g/f is like "oh are you going to cum" sometimes i want her to MaKe me cum!. it feels amazeing the whole time tho no complaints really at all i just ride the ride longer i suppose

ryanebiggs

I know what your are talking about. Normally I go for a good 20 to 30 min's, but with this one girl I could only last 1 or 2. It was a great 1 or 2, don't get me wrong, but I leave feeling a bit wimpy . I couldn't help thinking she was up to something. We didn't last long and the next guy fell victim to her trap. She was pregnant just about a month after the last time I had sex with her.

yammy

there's also the experience factor. IMHO, there's absolutely nothing wrong with blowing very fast when you're new to sex or in a fresh relationship... If you're like most guys starting out, you spend the other 99.999% of your time thinking about getting laid and .0000001% actually getting laid. That's bound to build up lots of tension that'll really make for zero staying power.

Yeah, there's also the fact that some gals are better than others. True enough.

I agree with the fella who said to make sure you're focusing on getting her off rather than passively letting her get you off. If you haven't, read up on the techniques and take charge the next few times.

Also, a trick i learned for making it last longer is to pull out when you think you might be getting close and focus on going down on her for a while.

Finally, don't let an early load ruin your ego. She'll be flattered if she gets you off if you let it fly and hop right back into the saddle. too many guys who blow early get all self conscious about it without just riding with the flow...turning what could be hours of sex into a 5 minute "oops... sorry" bailout. Don't let that happen. If you go early, its your turn to get her off and start to go down on her for a while and make sure to visually enjoy yourself -- play with her whole body and get into it -- and for fuck's sake, don't obsess about getting off too quickly and move on to having more fun. If you're like most younger (or any) guys, you'll be ready to go in five or ten minutes (or sooner) if you don't let it get to your head.

(Now, after three of four orgasms in an evening, naturally expect to wear out a little.)

jasefm

If I go over 30 min she's sore for days. Let's get some girl imput here. only one nut busts at a time, usually the one that's larger. It's kind of a right hand left hand thing. You can have one then another one 5-10 mins after (I can) but you might have some throbing nuts at first. Have a few drinks first.

SGMax

My advice: Learn how to have multiple orgasms, without shooting any semen. It is possible, but you need an extremely strong PC muscle, proper breathing, focus, and a partner who understands what you are trying to accomplish. If you have sex with multiple people, it will be harder to accomplish, because let's face it: Every pussy is different! Here is a great link that explains how multiple orgasms work:

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm

It has taken me almost 2 years to develop this with my Fiancé, and I am finally getting the gist of it. I'm sure I could've learned the technique sooner, but I didn't feel the want to. This is extremely fun in my opinion, especially when performed right. If you do it just right, you will be able to keep going indefinitely, or until your PC muscle can no longer hold the semen back after multiple orgasms. If this happens, I recommend (just before orgasm that you want to ejaculate) holding the PC tight for just a few seconds, then letting the load fire away. You will get a better sensation, and you will also shoot a stream that could knock down a brick wall!

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