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OK- Here is the deal, First of I am Black and White , Now the issue is that I have is I have never dated /kissed/had sex with a "Black" girl- nor do show any asperation to... When I try to fantasies about her -all I can see is her toe that huge big toe with a huge nail- It literally turns me off-

I dont want to seem like I dont like my Nubian princess- I just am not sexually attracted to them- am I a racist to my own race?

BackdoorJesus

Hey man, you like what you like - nothing wrong with that, it's just your personal preference. Now me, I don't date outside my race; I don't think it's a racist thing, but maybe it is...I don't question it though because it's just what I personally do/don't find attractive in the opposite sex. Outside of the dating realm I have no such personal limitations; teh Jesus is a friend to all races, but I only get wood for white chicks.

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johnnyawesome16

Look here mate: i'm in the same boat (black/mexican). i don't really like the ebony ladies either yet i have no problem with a sexy latin princess. the point being: we like what we like. simple as that. no reason to feel ashamed of it. keep your head up mate.

maggiesdragons

Not racist... I also only date with in my race... I'm just not attracted to the non white male. I have no issues with them, I'm not racist at all. No one should make you feel bad for being who you are. You have to live with your choices for the rest of you life, if you don't dig the princess, pick another one, thats why god made us all different, we have choices, nothing wrong with that.

who8myoreos

Well, I'd say you're allowed to think whatever you want. I would just prefer if people never told me that they don't like my race, cause that's just rude. I don't need to hear that.

Is it racist to prefer a race? Technically, yes I think it is. Somehow it's racist to say, "I don't talk to Black people", but when it comes to dating/sex, all of a sudden it's a "preference".

But hey, don't beat yourself up. These thoughts are just natural, I think. If you want to make yourself feel better, just don't be racist. It's not as hard as you think. Either someone's attractive or she isn't, I don't see how it serves me to make judgments about a whole race. Those judgments are gonna get shattered anyway by the ONE black girl that comes a long that you find attractive. So I think it's just wasted energy.

fmb

I don't think it's racist to not see black women as beautiful; however, I have to ask what might you think if you see a beautiful balck woman without hideous toes?? I've never dated outside my race, but recently came across a gorgeous black woman, with a great sense of humor, serious class, and knows how to wear some great clothes. I'm wondering if it ain't time for fmb to rethink his position.......

What works for you, works for you. As long as you're not holding anyone back, date who you want and enjoy life.

dvaudio99

I agree that is not racist, now if you didnt like them because the were (N WORD) that would be racist

facepeeler

Im not racist, but I wouldn't date a black chick, just because they don't do anything for me. I stay within my own race.

But therein lies a conundrum. Cinn. She's half Korean half white, so I don't know if that would be considered interracial or what. I don't even know that I consider her mixed. I just call her a crazy Korean chick for ease of motion. I don't really care what she is, though. It's not gonna make me change my mind about her. she's still my psycho hottie.

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Tairos

I'm not attracted to black women either. They're just too masculine.

Juan.©amaney

please. most black men chase chunky white girls anyway. play on.

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jeffc574

You like what you like. Is someone (like mom/dad) pressuring you to 'date black'? Actually your parents may be of some help. I would bet $10.00 that they have heard all of the comments about mixed dating. And probably some of the comments where from their folks.

Date who you like. Who knows, you may find some nice mixed girl.

travcook

It's not racist until you find a black woman that you DO find attractive but then you don't make a move BECAUSE she's black.

I find very few black women attractive but when I find one.... DAYUM

hirollcenter

Whats race have to do with it,if you are attracted its good,I hail from South Africa but I'm white when I was In school I called myself African Americian and like to got my ass wooped but thats what I was or is...So what all of you are saying is for a good time in the sack it matters what color or what country they are from,if you get a woody us it..

merkaba

I don't think you are but that has been said so many times in this thread. I don't give a damn what color you are but as long as you are skinny and not shy. Sorry if i upset anyone but I am not a fan of chubby/big girls.