Necrocannibal

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I dont know why but my sex drive is GONE. My wife is starting to get worried I dont want her anymore. I dont know why its gone its just gone. I have no desire to leave my wife but I have no desire to have sex anymore for some reason. I was thinking it could be my age?? Im 34, will be 35 in Feb. Any help would be appreciated.

maggiesdragons

Sometimes people just need a break from sex. you could try other things... like cuddling, a romantic dinner, and talk to a Doctor about it, there may be an underlying cause for it. Get it checked out. If your wife sees you trying to make it better it should make her feel better.

skept

Stress? Overweight? Depression? There are many things which can trigger a lack of interest in sex.

Maybe you guys need to mix it up?

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CD

Might be a mid-life crisis or some sorts? Sounds strange, but there is an underlying reason for this in my opinion. Is your wife still attractive? Do you have a lot to worry about as far as bills, work, friends?

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mighty

Wow Alot of great advice above- My biggest problem was weight- I gained 125lbs- So i went from tearing up putang every night to 1-3 times a month- that killed me-

But I like Maggies advice- Taking a break is a great idea, cause I am a freaky fuker but sometmes its just needed to kick back for a couple and let your willy chill!!

Necrocannibal

Thanks so far everyone. Id like to take a break but my wife is somewhat of a little nympho which was ok but now it just seems annoying to me. I do still find her attractive. The weight thing is funny that you brought up because I was just over 300 pounds when we got together and now Im around 215, she gave me the reason to lose it. Shes still right around 105 pounds. The only thing I can think of is the bill situation. We do have alot of those and she had alot before we got married and is now thinking of filing for wage earner. I really dont know if thats it but I guess it could be.

mighty

yeah bills and money a really big strain on a realtionship- but what Ive learned is if you do something you like everyday- ie: play with yourself, smack yourself whats ever it may be, will make you a little more relaxed, and may help getting willie back to stud status!!