WR - GF problems/girl at work

06-24-2007, 03:23 AM

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GF problems/girl at work

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So my gf and i have been having some problems. mainly that i don't think i want in this relationship anylonger...shes to attached and it seems like all she wants to do is hang out 24/7. Quick background...problems ealier, said she wanted to atleast date one more person in her life...no matter what happened with us.... Now for the problem: i get along w/ this girl at work. we click really well and seem to flirt all the time. I can tell she likes me and other co workers have also said she does. I wouldn't mind taking her out on a date and seeing where things go...but i do have a gf...what should i do?

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06-24-2007, 03:29 AM	#2
skept The Original Aussie. Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Aussie Posts: 4,485/3.20 Threads: 49 Friends Network Gold Member	Re: GF problems/girl at work Simple: If you want that girl at work - end the relationship with your current girlfriend and then persue your new relationship. If you know what you dislike about your current relationship - talk it through with your gf and tell her that you need your space and hopefully she will understand and take it in the right way.
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06-24-2007, 03:32 AM	#3
tsmo Resident Zombie slayer Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: In the shadows. stealth Posts: 3,551/2.43 Threads: 329 Friends Network Gold Member	Re: GF problems/girl at work easy, dump said gf. that way she gets her freak on with the next guy. gains exp. whatever. ( I say it like this because I'll assume your both way to young ) Then pick up on the girl at work. If things dont work out, date around till the clingy one is ready to get back together. or.. if shes too clingy, stay seperated... so what was the issue again? how to dump.. call gf. let her know.. its you, not her, and you need some time. see how easy that is? I like all the red below your name.. who'd you piss off?
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06-27-2007, 01:38 PM	#4
jeffc574 bitch Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Jefferson City Posts: 1,057/0.75 Threads: 6 Friends Network	Re: GF problems/girl at work beak up with the first girl before taking up with the chickie at work. In between read your companies sexual harassment policy end to end. Knowing the company rules first is much better than fired for them later.

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06-27-2007, 11:25 PM	#5
yammy whore Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: US Posts: 464/0.34 Threads: 5 Friends Network	Re: GF problems/girl at work fellas... fellas... Look at her the same way you'd want some girl to look at you. If you dug some chick, are you telling me you'd want her to stick around if she had the same feelings about you like you have with your current GF? Yes? You need to really rethink your identity and self worth. No? Right. That's the answer IMO. The best way to find happiness is to be up front with the other in a relationship -- if the other person feels like they'd rather be with someone else / is bored to death with it -- shit! -- i'd want to know that pretty early on so i know what's up. God forbid one or both have those feelings and you get into one of the bazillion loveless marriages out here because people don't just wise up about speaking from the heart. PS -- if you're worried about crushing the other person, don't. its for the best. They need it as much for there growing, to. Fact is, getting too involved too soon gets more problems like the last point vs. simply being honest from the go. (e.g., early on throw out the... "before anyone have any wrong ideas, this is for the sex, right?" -- or some such comment.) Last edited by yammy : 06-27-2007 at 11:27 PM. Reason: typo

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