JimmyJones1209

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Hey, im not new to the forums just post and go on at rare times, and this is one.

Here is my situation:

I have been hanging out with this girl, pretty much everyday for a week.
We are going to go to breakfast in the morning. (She is calling it a date.)
Anyways i have a couple questions i would like to ask.

First: Should i offer to pay for her food also? (How would i go about doing this?)

Second: She said after we eat she wants to come to my house and take a nap with me because she likes to take naps after she eats. (I don't know what this means and i do not know how i should take the situation when she is next to me.)

Answering this questions would be a big help and i would appreciate it.

Thanks
Jimmy


EDIT: Should i put on a movie when we are laying there or just talk and just go where the moment leads?

gingerman

i dunno personally id pay but some girls dont like that and like to go dutch pay once or twice and see how it goes
man if that chick wants too get into ur bed your probably on a winner just watch a dvd and see how it goes

JimmyJones1209

Thanks Ginger, Im going to pick her up in a little bit, so i will tell you how it goes.

Bigeme

good luck

undercoverdjay

sounds like ur set dood

fmb

that's almost weird. but if she's ready to curl up for some ZZ'ssss, more power to her. just see how it goes. apparently, she is interested enough in you to see you early and crash with you.

microhaxo

this doesnt happen ever day, lol but you know she might actually mean take a nap

thetommyg

i think your best course of action would be to go in for the gentle soft kiss while cuddling up for the nap.

Te2ting

ok well from my POV like you said you guys have hung out practically everyday this week so you should be feeling comfortable around her which means that there shouldn't be any awkwardness with who's paying so go ahead and pay for everything then when you guys go "nap" then do whatever you two feel like doing...its all about were the moment takes both of you,....you guys might just wanna relax and watch some tv,movie and maybe while you're watching the movie you will both get more comfortable and the more comfortable you both get the more you guys will do....so yea just let it go werever and don't force any actions,if you don't wanna do anthing then don't and thats about it....hope this helped some laterz

jeffc574

Tell the server one check. Your "date" will either go with it or go Dutch. As to the nap, just go with her lead. The worst thing is you end up with a good friend curled up on you for an hour or so. As to the best thing, have a few condoms near where ever you two end up napping. A friend you can nap on could become a GF in a hurry. For the first time, save the moves.

JimmyJones1209

Thanks Everyone! Here is the story:
I buy the food
She comes to my house and watch tv.
Then we go to her house and lay in bed for 6 hours!!
Then later that night she wants me to sleep over. (So i do! Who wouldn't)
AND THEN!!!!!!!!
I find out she is super depressed and she cuts her legs allll Up and blood every where!!
I cleaned her up and am trying to be friends so she stops!


*EDIT* That bloody mess what soooo scary!

clamsrus

bummer!!!! that girl needs help....I guess if you want to turn that into a life long mission so be it....which ever way get her to someone who can help. BTW....her cutting etc kinda loses impact without an audience. You have been used!!
Sorry to hear that turned out so badly.

CD

Ouch. I'd normally say run from the crazy woman... but she really needs some serious help before you do. I'd suggest getting her into therapy quickly.

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jeffc574

Bummer. She needs professional help. Hopefully she will attend. If she does not, run do not walk away. It is a pity, but you can only hurt yourself or her if she does not want the kind of help she needs.