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07-03-2004, 04:16 AM
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alcoholism anyone?
ive been reading the ad. pages linked to xanaxandmore.com. and i came across a site called www.homerecovery.net. at the first sight, it looked pretty ok. to me. telling people that, treatment doesnt work or alcoholism is not a diesase and such. but when i did some more reading, ifound out that they were asking for 89$ for home treatment program and up to 60.000$ for the "treatment" in their clinic.
so i say, alcoholism needs treatment after all. i am an alcohol addict as well, trying to think of a solution to the problem...(or the diesase)
any comments or anyone to share his/her experience(s)...
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07-03-2004, 04:48 AM
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your gf calls me daddy
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
dingle says when you become and alcholic you get drunk easier. so if that has happened to you, I would look around for some local support groups. because it helps to have someone local you can call who will come help if you want to take that drink
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07-03-2004, 08:02 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2004
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
any addiction is not kickable unless you want to....so think about what you really want and don't waste anyone's time unless you are truly wanting to stop...they have clinics and support groups all around this country....especially if you are like me and broke....don't just have one friend...have a whole circle and put their numbers up on the wall right next to 911 and poison control....be honest...be fair...be strong...you may not be able to do it alone but you are able to do it.
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07-03-2004, 12:27 PM
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: michigan
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
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Originally Posted by Waldo
dingle says when you become and alcholic you get drunk easier. so if that has happened to you, I would look around for some local support groups. because it helps to have someone local you can call who will come help if you want to take that drink
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Actually acoholics have incredibly high tolerance levels, they can easily drink a case of beer a day. Reason being is when you get drunk the dopamean(sp?) and saratonan levels in your brain increase giving you that happy feeling. The problem is, if you get drunk too often you brain can't handle all that stimulus so it starts shutting down the receptors for those two chemicals. This is when people start building up tolerances, it takes more and more for them to get drunk. Those receptors also are what control your happiness throughout the day, so things that you do that used to make you happy won't anymore, eventually alcohol is the only thing that can stimulate those receptors and make you happy. This is when you know you are an acoholic, you become depressed most of the day and the only thing you look forward to is drinking. If you're are an acholic the best thing to do, as Waldo said, is find a support group, because really the best way is to quit cold turkey and not touch a drop of acohol anymore, until you have it under control.
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07-21-2005, 07:50 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2005
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
I hope I won't get banned for stirring up old shit
But I am expecting a phonecall to help me fight the dragon on my back
clinical detox of 4 or 5 weeks
wish me luck,
Alcohol & cannabis by the way
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07-21-2005, 08:20 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
My opinion might now be loved here but you cannot be addicted to cannibus. Also no matter what anyone tells you marijuana is not harmful. Anyone have any questions or arguements against my statements please read this first. Americans really dont know the truth about marijuana. Millions are spent a year trying to "end" marijuana use but they should be concentrating more on cigarettes, thats an addiction. And as to someone saying you get more drunk easier as an alcoholic I find that to be the opposite because of growing tolerances to alcohol. Again I'm not trying to be offensive but trying to give some information to you so please if i come off as being offensive I'm not trying to be.
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07-24-2005, 03:19 AM
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whore
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Va
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
If you are truly looking for help with an addiction, look to your local AA or NA chapter. There you will receive support better than you thought possible, good luck
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07-24-2005, 03:24 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
I think addictions are things made up by people with weak minds. Dependance on a drug, I understand...which is how we go through withdrawl; hangovers, heroine shakes, etc....all processes of detox.
Last night was my 1 month sober. I was a drinker....a heavy drinker. My weeks were spent following drink specials at bars or getting drunk at home. Beer, booze, any mixture of both...along with other things.
What got me to stop? Nothing really. Just wanted to not do it for a while. am I done for good...prolly not. Why? Cuz its not that I don't want to drink forever and ever...I just don't want to drink right now. Do I crave a beer....no more than I crave other things. Do I lose sleep over it, nope. I had alcoholic symptoms; drinking alone, drinking at weird hours, fucking up a little legal wise. No se....I'm just a strong minded individual who can say no to peer pressure.
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07-24-2005, 03:34 AM
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whore
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
How do you differentiate addiction form dependance? Just because you had symptoms od alcoholism doesnt mean you were/are an alcoholic. Until you reach the point where you choose your addiction over your family, you are not an addict and cannot possibly understand what they go through...
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07-24-2005, 03:41 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
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How do you differentiate addiction form dependance? Just because you had symptoms od alcoholism doesnt mean you were/are an alcoholic. Until you reach the point where you choose your addiction over your family, you are not an addict and cannot possibly understand what they go through...
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I think that's the point of this thread. Addiction doesn't mean you have to ruin your life, leave your family and hit rock bottom. I've seen/known plenty of addicts who go about their daily lives....they just need to buy a gram oc coke every few days, or they need to shoot up every morning so they wont go puking their guts out at work.
Dependance is not being able to function normaly without taking some form of substance. Examples, head aches when you don't drink coffee, hangovers if you don't have another drink, getting the shakes and vomiting when you don't get your morning fix of heroine. In other words, when you get symptoms of withdrawls, you are dependant on a drug.
Addiction is the topic in question....namely alcoholism. I was told by many counselors that I was an alcoholic. The shrink at work labeled me an alcoholic. Doctors had been trying to get me to stop drinking irresponsibly for years. My response...I can stop whenever I want...and I did. They saw my response as the first stage of addiction, denial. I got into major shit because of drinking (luckily I have a good lawyer). I lost friends, and a gf of 6 years. My grades suffered at school. I showed up to work sometimes still buzzing. I flew over a freeway once in my old car. Hid liquor and even had an emergency beer in the car. I just really liked to drink and be buzzed. Then...I decided, no more for a while. Just like that.
Like I said...anyone who wants to stop drinking can if they put their mind to it. Its all about removing yourself from a stituation, not being alone around sources that will lead you to drink, and a lot of effort.
I just don't see the need to label alcoholism a physical disease.
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07-24-2005, 04:13 AM
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whore
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Va
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
Juan, you make several very good points...however, it becomes a physical disease when you start to have physical symptoms, e.g. the shakes. I am not saying that people dont control their own lives, I am just saying that some popel cannot control their impulses. Like you said, if you go by the definition I am an addict. However, I control myself. The people I am speaking of cannot control themselves
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07-24-2005, 04:46 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
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Juan, you make several very good points...however, it becomes a physical disease when you start to have physical symptoms, e.g. the shakes. I am not saying that people dont control their own lives, I am just saying that some popel cannot control their impulses. Like you said, if you go by the definition I am an addict. However, I control myself. The people I am speaking of cannot control themselves
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Maybe alcoholism really is a physical disease and I've just never been in its later states the way you are choosing to see the definition as.
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07-24-2005, 02:39 PM
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Luckiest of all Bobs
Join Date: Feb 2005
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
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Originally Posted by slimjim86bs
My opinion might now be loved here but you cannot be addicted to cannibus. Also no matter what anyone tells you marijuana is not harmful. Anyone have any questions or arguements against my statements please read this first. Americans really dont know the truth about marijuana. Millions are spent a year trying to "end" marijuana use but they should be concentrating more on cigarettes, thats an addiction. And as to someone saying you get more drunk easier as an alcoholic I find that to be the opposite because of growing tolerances to alcohol. Again I'm not trying to be offensive but trying to give some information to you so please if i come off as being offensive I'm not trying to be.
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You are correct, there are no physically addictive components in marijuana. However, if one has an addictive personality (I know, some people will call "addictive personality" bullshit, but that's besides the point,) one can easily become addicted to the psychoactive effects of marijuana.
Just to point out, I'm speaking from experience. My father was an alcoholic and similarly, although less so, addicted to marijuana.
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07-24-2005, 10:03 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: kansas
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
I know damned well you can get addicted to marijuana because you jones when you go off of it after smoking it a long time. Don't kid yourself.
Last edited by beber : 07-24-2005 at 10:03 PM.
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07-25-2005, 02:03 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
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Re: alcoholism anyone?
in my experience alcoholism/drug addiction is an escape. the same can be said for overeating, sex, porn, relationships, it's the act of using/doing to escape from the reality of life. whether it's physically addicting, whether i'm weak minded, whether it's a disease, etc. is not something i concern myself with; because for me living life on life's terms is my problem. when something is not what i want, expect or desire i have a tough time accepting that is just how it is. when i would find myself in those situations i would drink/smoke pot to minimize the angst and my fear about the situation. my using, was trying to escape these fears so i didn't have to deal with whatever fear it was i was escaping; this circle created absolute turmoil in my life; from inner turmoil and hatred for myself, to alienating friends, family and chilrdren, to a lost business, insurmountable debt and eventually a crushed marriage. what it boiled down was i was ready for a change and i was willing to do whatever i had to, to change my circumstances, but understand it didn't happen overnight.
today i chose not to drink/use so i can deal with my fears at a semi-rational level. it's not easy and i still avoid them to some degree, but what's different is, i don't compound them by using to escape. to live differently now i have to be as honest with myself as i can, not use, surround myself with people that will listen, that have my best interest at heart and work to accept that life is not exactly like i want it. through these actions i can deal with life, be relatively happy and have some semblance of sanity in my world. let me know if i can help.
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