Weezer1982

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Ok guys/gals heres the deal. I've been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now. We are great together and never had really any problems. Except for this: There is a guy who is trying to hook up with her. He calls once in a while and text messages her but she ignores them. He is actually her friend's cousin. He invites her to family gatherings and parties but my girl wants no part of him yet she cannot be mean to him since its her friend's cousin. I fully trust her and I know theres nothing going on, but would it be wrong if I called the guy and confronted him? I want him to stop calling and texting her. My girlfriend says she would be very upset and not talk to me if I did that. Thoughts?? Thanks guys.

theworldismytoy

I'd be more concerned with the fact that your girl won't hesitate to say something like she won't talk to you...doesn't sound like the basis of a good relationship. But getting back on track, if she's not bothered by it and you know she's not cheating, I would let it go, no sense in getting someone pissed at you for no good reason. Now, if he starts calling all the time/stalking her, then you might want to do something about it.

89tracerman

fuk dat dude, show him wats up, I would confront him and tell em to leave her the hell alone, But thats just me.

Juan.©amaney

Sounds like your gf is the one with the problem. Maybe she likes the attention. Maybe she doesn't think of you enough as a man to put an end to this type of shit. I, for one, would ignore her until she made the problem go away. Make her put an end to it in her own way and if she doesn't, split.

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jShizz

She would be upset because she is leading him on. Almost no man calls a girl (unless he is a stalker) unsolicited. She must be giving him some reason to keep calling.

Cinnamon

Not true. Some are just way too dumb to take "I don't want to talk to you or be your friend anymore" as it says. They think they can continue to pop up and test to see if you've change your mind.

Now this girl needs to be straight with this guy and tell him she's not interested. If she hasn't she's just plain wrong. Who cares if he's a friend's cousin, he she's not interested, she's not interested. If she's going to get really pissed at you for trying to set in, don't. Talk to her and let her know how much it bothers you. See why she doesn't want you interfering. Maybe she'll let you when he doesn't take the hint.

facepeeler

and those types are gonna get a crow-bar to the face


but yeah, I would cry foul if the dude keeps sniffing around, especially if she is telling you about it. That's just trying to get a reaction out of you, and causing un-needed stress on you. Personal opinion, you should either go handle your business with this tool, or tell her to do it, or pop smoke....

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Weezer1982

Thanks guys! I decided not to call. I wont let this bastard bother me. He knows Im with her, yet hes tryin to see if shes still interested once in a while so hes tryin to get into my head. My girl has told me she will ignore his text messages from now on. (He doesnt call anymore) Its been 5 months since he saw her at his cousins party so hes a persistant SOB. But if anything goes down, Im pretty sure a crowbar to his face is in the plans.