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04-10-2007, 04:33 PM
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whore
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: mt. vernon
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threesome?
i've been with my girlfriend for three years, we love each other and we have a solid sex life. i want to see what it would be like to experiment with other people-not like having some guy double team my girlfriend or anything-just kissing more softer activities. i asked her about it and she thought that i wanted to cheat on her. i don't know how to tell her that i want to be with her but i might want to try things with other ladies. what is a boy to do?
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04-10-2007, 05:42 PM
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Jesus was Black
Join Date: May 2006
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Re: threesome?
When I am in a relationship, everything, I mean everything intimate that I do with my mate is something that I would only do with them. You may not see kissing another woman as cheating, but I would bet money that she does think it is cheating.
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04-10-2007, 08:50 PM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: threesome?
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Originally Posted by mastercaddy
i've been with my girlfriend for three years, we love each other and we have a solid sex life. i want to see what it would be like to experiment with other people-not like having some guy double team my girlfriend or anything-just kissing more softer activities. i asked her about it and she thought that i wanted to cheat on her. i don't know how to tell her that i want to be with her but i might want to try things with other ladies. what is a boy to do?
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Double standard, dude. You suck at threesomes and it will never happen for you. What *IF* your women wanted to get double teamed by you and say...her best guy friend? Bet you'd be pretty pissed about it. I think deep down inside you are just looking to cheat on her with her permission because you've been with her since too early an age and haven't experimented enough to be monogomous.
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04-10-2007, 08:52 PM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
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Re: threesome?
yup, checked you rprofile...ur 21, been with her since you were 18...too damned young to be in any type of serious relationship. My prognostication...you will cheat and break her heart sooner or later.
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04-10-2007, 09:45 PM
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Psychic MOD
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Re: threesome?
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Originally Posted by Juan.İamaney
yup, checked you rprofile...ur 21, been with her since you were 18...too damned young to be in any type of serious relationship. My prognostication...you will cheat and break her heart sooner or later.
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Agreed. I read this when it was first posted and was thinking the same thing.
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04-10-2007, 11:24 PM
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Re: threesome?
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Originally Posted by mastercaddy
i've been with my girlfriend for three years, we love each other and we have a solid sex life. i want to see what it would be like to experiment with other people-not like having some guy double team my girlfriend or anything-just kissing more softer activities. i asked her about it and she thought that i wanted to cheat on her. i don't know how to tell her that i want to be with her but i might want to try things with other ladies. what is a boy to do?
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That right there says a lot. It's not about her experimenting with another girl or you just being happy watching, it's about you. No wonder she thought you wanted to cheat on her. I'm almost 30 and I would be pissed if my guy said something about him wanting to try stuff with other women. I have to agree with the others, you're too young to be too serious. Just break up with her if you're going to cheat.
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04-11-2007, 05:47 AM
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The Original Aussie.
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Re: threesome?
Mate your 21 and your talking about cheating. The decent and right thing to do if your looking to cheat and fool around is to break up with her now, because if she catches you cheating you will fuck her up good and proper.
And yea you are having double standards here - you want to fool around but you want her to be your plan b if shit don't work out with the others. Seriously if you don't want her to be banged by another dude you shouldn't be looking at banging other chicks.
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04-12-2007, 08:56 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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Re: threesome?
Listen to the advice of everyone posting. Remember, most guys think every woman has snakes in her head (if you ain't where I'm from that means they're all psycho). Women get that way because of how they're treated during their younger dating years.
Save a guy down the road some heartache and her from a lifetime of self doubt. Go now, before you cheat on her.
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04-14-2007, 02:52 PM
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whore
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: mt. vernon
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Re: threesome?
well, my girlfriend just broke up with me so it doesn't really matter. but thanks alot for your guys' advice-i think most of you know a great deal more than me
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04-14-2007, 04:43 PM
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Behold the power of me.
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Re: threesome?
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well, my girlfriend just broke up with me so it doesn't really matter. but thanks alot for your guys' advice-i think most of you know a great deal more than me
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that sucks dude. hope it was a peaceful break
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04-15-2007, 12:31 AM
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Groin Grabbingly Good
Join Date: Jan 2003
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Re: threesome?
Don't fret, motherfuck. You're 21 in college and your libido is headed in the right direction. At this point (after the break up) don't fag out and go into that mode where you thing ur ex is the greatest lay in the world and run back to her. Move on, there is more pussy to be had. She'll be back tho...you just watch....then point and laugh and tell her to fuck off.
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04-23-2007, 05:15 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Originally Posted by mastercaddy
well, my girlfriend just broke up with me so it doesn't really matter. but thanks alot for your guys' advice-i think most of you know a great deal more than me
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Sorry to hear about that...
If in the future you wanted to ask the same question...I would:
introduce the idea slowly (durring pilow talk)...say "I would like someone to watch us" "we should watch another couple"...that turns into "I would like to see another woman touch you while we make love/bump-uglies" to "I wanna have this other woman touch my balls while I'm inside you..."
get the idea?
You want anal, you don't say "how 'bout I rape yer arse.."
You need to listen to your lover...all the above is actually just putting yer toe in the pool, to see what they think...they could be thinking the same thing as you, and early in a relationship ppl say one thing and mean another...
She may say "Eww, that's gross" when she's thinking "fuck that's dirty, so dirty I can't/won't say what I think because he'll think I'm gross/easy/disturbed."
That's my 2 cents (maybe $2?) 
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