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12-09-2006, 10:46 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: kuopio
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What to do ??
Okay guys this is my problem : i met a girl that was pretty good looking and so i started to talk to her so after a couple weeks i got to know her so she started to flirt with me so of course i started to flirt back but 1 day at msng she told me that she had just broken up with her boyfriend couple weeks back and she couldnt start a new relationship yet and she wanted to be friend for now and this was couple months ago so now we barely talk !! so what should i do ?? Give her time and space or let her go ?
P.S thanks for your advice anyway
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12-09-2006, 04:55 PM
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whore
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Sagnasty
Posts: 85/0.06
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Re: What to do ??
Just because she doesn't want a relationship now, doesn't mean she never will. You didn't divulge the particulars of the break-up, so perhaps she got burned and developed a relationship shyness. Continue to talk to her, it's the only way it'll go anywhere. Give her a call and see what she is up too. May as well try and see what happens.
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12-10-2006, 10:54 AM
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Erica Ownz me!
Join Date: Dec 2004
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Re: What to do ??
Kipper, if you really do like this girl, do giver her space.
Learn to be her friend and talk with her, she will appriciate that.
Don't just ignore her and call her in three months.
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12-18-2006, 11:08 PM
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whore
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Chapel Hill, NC
Posts: 142/0.11
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Re: What to do ??
I agree with Joerockhead, one of the best ways to begin a relationship is with a solid friendship. Proving that you can be there for her even though you aren't necessarily getting anything from her says alot about the person you are and can be a pretty desirable trait in a guy. If you like her, stick with it an see where it goes...what have you got to lose?
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12-19-2006, 03:18 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: fayetteville nc
Posts: 611/0.74
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Re: What to do ??
just hang around and be really nice. Well just be nicer than her last boyfriend and she is pretty much yours. A few parties, a dinner or two and a person to lean on is all she need. Oh yeah be honest all the time, and be dependable. If you say "I'll meet you later", Do it.
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12-21-2006, 06:33 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Greensboro, NC
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Re: What to do ??
I agree with Devone16 but be aware that she may not be attracted to you. However I would certainly determine if that's the case before I wrote her off. I contend if the right guy came along the day after she broke up that she would have not let it get away. Girls don't like to be alone.
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12-21-2006, 04:53 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: NC
Posts: 10,900/6.86
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Re: What to do ??
Be here friend, she will figure it out when she is ready and if you have shown her what a good guy you are as a friend she might want more!
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