awilli234life

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Ok as a rough outline, this is what my nieve mind has gathered. I work at a resteraunt,I am a cook and genuine nice guy.i'm 23, the turnover rate in normal resteraunts is 200% a year save a few employees so i'm continually seeing fresh faces, I started dateing one of our new young waitstaff. Who i found to my fancy 5'2" beautiful body dark brown hair to the bottom of her shoulderblades.
slightly muddy complection but verry cute.. she has a verry relaxed demeanor but can dish it out when sombodys talkin shit. well it started verry innocently I asked her out to lunch... woke up late, called her to tell her i'd be runnin late
just to find out with my phone call i woke her up...so we hung out that night instead and rented a movie.. one thing lead to another and b4 i knew it it was dawn and i decided that should sleep. when we woke up we discussed things and for the next month things were good and great and we began developing our relationship. well suddenly things got busy with her life and i didn't get to see her for a week or so, but i still remained in contact by phone. her mom came down with a bactiral infection. i supported that she should stay with her mom and support her i offered to come over and cook for the family.. she said that thats sweet of me to offer but her mom looked like hell and would not allow any visitors... well her mom has since gotten better but things didn't pick back up.... figuring that i did somthing wrong i talked to her after work one night she told me that nothing was wrong and that she had alot of catching up to do with alot of things , another week rolls by i talk to her again and she said, that well she had recently found out that her ex boyfriend had comeback from iraq 2 years early--- explaining that they had dated for 2-1/2 years, 2 months b4 she met me and that she had given up on the long distance relationship thing {and that initally she had not ment for anything to happen between us } and that she'd like to pick up where she left off with him........so here i stand feeling like i've been left out in the cold, wondering how the hell is this fair she's comin over tomarrow to talk with me about things because i just won't give up on her{not in a bad way} , she's just way too cool of a chick to lose. i even met her ex who actually is the same height and build as me and we share some common facial features.. nice guy I have no idea how i'm gonna win her over but i gotta try I can't just tell her fuck no she'll recoil horribly bad on me and then i won't even be able to talk with her. any suggestions, open relationship? maby i've started leanin in that direction because i don't think the marine will be able to keep to just her. and if he fucks up i'll be golden as i said theres alot of cemestry at stake here oh well i'll figure somthing out suggestions welcome ~Andrew

yellowfish

if you love something set it free
if it comes back to you it was yours to begin with

awilli234life

yea thats great and all but we arn't anywhere near there... the general concensus is f-that cut her loose dude.

durden

...ouch buddy. that hurts. throw on some R.E.M. and let her go. you cant force her to be with you. let things work themselves out. if you were meant to be with her, she will come back to you. otherwise, relax and let her live her life how she wants. good luck...

Juan.©amaney

So you were a replacement while her true love was not there. Enjoy what you had, next.

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tsmo

yeah, I agree with Juan. you looked just like her Ex. you said it yourself. You were a tide-me-over.

sucks. but thats life. remember the experience. and move along to the next one.

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I'm a terminal non-achiever

skept

Read these words mate because this is exactly what she did. Its time to move on.

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Remember, remember the 5th of November...

phillychief

that's her heart and if you want to wait 5 to 6 years before she gets done with him go for it. best option fuck her tell her how you feel and she's not with it leave her