microhaxo

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My girlfriend has this weird problem, whenever we have sex its usually ok, sometimes if i cum in her she says it makes her burn for like 20 min. However if i eat her out and try to put my dick in her she tells me it starts to burn immediately and to stop.. I really dont want to eat her out after i have came all over her if you know what i mean..

But if i just eat her out and dont penetrate there is no problem.. odd eh..

Regularly she says it still hurts when having sex, i dont know if its because we dont use lube or what but i really want to fix this problem..

and what the hell, two in one..
she also has a hard time orgasming from sex alone, Half way through she says she feels like she has to pee and we stop :|
Any suggestions on how to stop that from happening or what im doin wrong heh.

skept

Yes. There is a medical condition which causes this (its name eludes me atm) where the females inners contract on intercourse (something like that). That would be the cause of her pain.

The alternative is STD's or the lack of lube. Goto a doctor and have both of yourselves checked out

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microhaxo

yea, she is on birth control, so they regularly test her for stuff, I would rule out STD. But i think she has that condition where she contracts :|..

it might be a lack of lube, sometimes i have a real hard time getting it inside of her and i think there might be too much friction to the inside lining, it might be the cause..

kulotsalot

The condition is Vaginismus, and there's varying degrees of severity. Best go to the doctor and have it checked out.

With the peeing thing, that's pretty much how I feel when I'm close to cumming. The best thing to do is to pee beforehand, that way you can be pretty sure that your bladder is empty and that it's not pee

microhaxo

Thank you for your reply, We will go to a doctor and check it out, I dont her to be hurting.

durden

use lube!!! friction causes heat and that is a sesitive area for her and you both! doctors advice is best for this kind of situation. good luck.

microhaxo

I should also say that we havent had sex for atleast 2 months as a result of this..
Its starting to bother me, i would really like to sort this out because its starting to effect the relationship..

pathos

There is also another possibility. Vaginismus is characterized by muscle spasms making intercourse difficult and does not fit what you described. What you described was after ejaculation she experienced a burning. Furthermore you associated the adverse effect to only occur when seminal fluid is present.

I would have your girlfriend checked for a semen allergy. This would explain many of her symptoms.

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/14112006/3...d-lifeline.html


hope this helps....or not

microhaxo

Well, we went to the doctor and come to find out she is allergic to latex, and she has a very sensative area down there can can be bothered by lots of things, Doctor said for me to hold my self inside of her for a little bit so she can be ready for the actual act of sex, anyway we tried what doctor said and everything is success.. He also said to use lube no matter if she gets wet or not, its always good to have but i need to buy a special lube, non alogenic or somthing like that..

Thank you for all your help..