sexy420

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OK so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and we have gotten to the point where we are starting to...well do a hell of alot more then just makeout. This is the first girl that i have been to this point with and I am the first guy that she has been with to this point as well, so needless to say we are both at least a little unsure of what we are doing. Lately she has been starting to give me hand jobs as we make out, and I have been fingering her, and a couple of questions have come up. My first question is will i know if i get her to orgasm? Because there have been a couple of times where i think i may have got her to that point, but i am not positvie about it. Sort of a follow up to that is are girls the same way as guys where getting really excited and then not orgasming ends up being a let down, like is it really poor etiquette if i stop fingering her before getting her to orgasm? And then the final question that i have (and the one that i actually care the most about) is what do you guys do with the cum when you are doing hand jobs, because i dont know about you but i dont really enjoy having a pile of cum just sitting there on my chest.

randomglitter

.1. If she's not a screamer or verbal at all about it, you might not know when you get her to orgasm until you've done it a few times. Try paying attention to the way she's breathing and moving. I tend to breathe really fast and tremble a lot when I orgasm, but I know other girls that hold their breath too.

2. It really depends on the situation. Like sometimes you're expecting to just fool around a little and not finish, so in that case stopping would be fine. But if she's really in the mood, then it might be a let down for her. Don't be afraid to ask if she's finished, and don't be afraid to ask her to show you what she likes...that way you can get her to orgasm if you haven't already. Experimenting is fun :-)

3. Just cum into a paper towel or kleenex or something. Easy cleanup.

randomglitter

Oh, and I forgot to mention: don't think about it too much! Just have fun!

michaeljohn

I have a question, how old are the two of you?

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ClockworkApple

That's what I was thinking of the original poster... no offense intended, you just sound quite young.

durden

my next question as well...

SMonty30

Birthday:
April 20, 1969

apparently 35 or something ;o

sexy420

Ok so when i originally signed up for this i didnt really think that my birthdate really needed to be a matter of public record, which is why i made up the date of 4-20-69 (come on no one caught that? 69? and national pot day?) But for the record we are both 18, and she will be 19 in about a month. Oh and thanks for the advice glitter, and I am MORE then welcome to more suggestions/advice. The kleenex/paper towel thing was basicaly what i have been figuring i need to do, it is just that i dont usually walk around with that type of stuff. Ands also it would be a little wierd to stand up and say hang on a minute i am about to cum and i need to go grab something to do it on, as she is in the middle of of giving me a hand job.

durden

ok, good age. from my personal experience, just let her do the leading. if you are giving her oral, ask where it is the best for her and show her and if she responds, then youll know. youll get used to it and start getting her easier and better. also, the cumming part for you. if youre doing this spurt of the moment, youre kinda going to have to let it be. if you can, just cover it up with your underwear so you dont wear it. thats about the only other thing that ive ever done to keep from wearing it and her not swallowing. good luck and hope all goes well.

sdskater03

The best way for cleanup is do it into a sock. Just slip it over when you're about to blow, and then just throw it into the dirty laundry basket.

Manning1985

ok, about question 1, I have to disagree with randomglitter, very girl I have been with it has been obvious when they orgasm both vocal and not. But if you want to know for sure ask her to leave you alone, just relax and enjoy what your doing for her have her lay back, put one hand on her ab and gently push down against the same place that it feels like your fingers are pushing from the inside, she will really enjoy it, it may take awhile but she will orgasm and you will know it.

cakemix

Don't you just get cum all over your other clothes in the wash? Like..just diluted nut?

bogaboga

wow... exact same situation for me! I was looking around at some random threads before going to post my own. Guess I dont need to now... Advice posted here will be helping at least 2 people.