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Old 10-11-2006, 12:56 PM   #1
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ok so i am getting married next june and am really excited to be taking this step and to vow myself to my wonderful fiance...however we have decided that we want to have a small wedding party (groomsmen and such) yet i have around seven guys i want to stand with me and i have no idea how to pick just three of them...any advice would be greatly appreciated

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Old 10-11-2006, 02:09 PM   #2
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Re: wedding problems
Last edited by Car Enthusiast : 10-11-2006 at 06:13 PM. Reason: smartass reply
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Old 10-11-2006, 05:51 PM   #3
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Re: wedding problems
r47mie, this is a serious discussion section, smart ass comments are not tolerated, not a good start for you there, not at all.

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Old 10-11-2006, 06:18 PM   #4
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How can you talk about serious when you are going to get married. What is it about a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life making one man miserable...If you dont have a sense of humour............dont get married.................
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Old 10-11-2006, 06:31 PM   #5
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Re: wedding problems
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How can you talk about serious when you are going to get married. What is it about a woman that wants to spend the rest of her life making one man miserable...If you dont have a sense of humour............dont get married.................

your opinion of serious doesn't matter. What does is this forum. Serious replies only.
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Old 10-12-2006, 04:52 AM   #6
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Re: wedding problems
Since no one replied seriously to the threadstarter...


If you only want 3 then pick the ones closest to you or the ones you've known the longest(but you've probably already thought of that)



If all else fails...draw straws...good luck on your big day!
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Old 10-12-2006, 07:01 AM   #7
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Re: wedding problems
Another option, see if any of them would be okay with the other roles in the wedding, like ushers, runners, sound?, video?, if nothing else they will be happy that you asked, it shouldn't be too big of a deal who stands next to you as long as they are there for you and support you. After all they are your friends and true friend would understand that there can only be three up there with you. That leaves 4 to do something else. Maybe the one who throws your bachelor party takes a seat at the wedding?
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Old 10-12-2006, 07:44 AM   #8
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sit them all down have a joke with them.. then do the three longest straws get to be ur best men.
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Old 10-13-2006, 12:37 AM   #9
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Re: wedding problems
Tell them that they're all good friends to you, and that you can't decide. Then have them decide themselves(away from you) who it's gonna be.
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Old 10-13-2006, 12:58 PM   #10
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i really like that idea mstad i might go with that

thanks to those that posted serious replies
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Old 10-13-2006, 10:49 PM   #11
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i will have to say that take the three guys that you have known the longest or like th emost, whatever. take them, put them in your wedding party. the others, have been ushers. you can never have enough ushers. it makes youre wedding guests feel more welcomed. trust me, im going through exactly what your going through. good luck my friend.
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Old 10-14-2006, 06:48 AM   #12
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Re: wedding problems
Pick the three you are closest to. Invite the rest. The other four probably didn't really want to rent a tux anyway.
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Old 10-15-2006, 08:33 PM   #13
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saint72: you're really lucky to have 7 guys you consider that close... there's no way to avoid hurt feelings.

we don't know you or them, so we can't really help you without more info. certainly if any of them are family then they've got to be in. beyond that only you can decide who counts. good luck. the next obstacle will be deciding the seating arrangement at the reception.
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Old 10-15-2006, 09:25 PM   #14
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Re: wedding problems
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i really like that idea mstad i might go with that


I understand mstad's suggestion, but I think you ought to consider this as a decision you need to make yourself.

You know that most men are not as tied emotionally to something like a wedding. The guys would probably be more offended if they were uninvited to the bachelor party. Your friends/relatives who you think would be hurt if not chosen - those are the ones to put in the party. This will be easy to explain to the others.

And congratulations!
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Old 10-20-2006, 11:54 AM   #15
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Re: wedding problems
Congrats on your wedding - IMO - its your wedding, so make your choices, don't worry about feelings of others (in this case). If these guys are your friends, then they will understand your choices. If not, then tuff 4 them. If any of them are family, they should understand also. You can discuss it with your fiance, get input from her also. And the suggestion about other duties (ushers, runners, etc) for the ones u don't ask to stand is a good one.
Good luck - marriage is great, btw...despite what r47mie says...
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