Butter

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Hey, first post so be gentle :D
Right, heres the story, im not completely new to sex, i know where things go and im pretty good with my hands, but i have next to no idea what to do when it comes to givin a girl good oral, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Another thing, i havent been with a girl for around a year, and im just starting out in a new relationship, does anyone have any tips on how i can increase the time it takes for me to ejaculate, atm i can barely last ten minutes :(, again, any help at all would be great! :D

theleetbeagle

Ask her how she likes it. Will she just enjoy clitoral stimulation via your tongue or does she want your tongue inside her? IMO, the girl will be impressed that you're asking her what makes her feel good.

Failing that, light and gentle strokes on her clit, light and gentle nibbling on her lips, light and gentle sucking on her clit... Get the idea?

To last longer, try Trojan's Extended Release condoms. They use benzocaine to slightly numb your rod. They work so-so for me; worth a shot.

Another method is that when you're nearing the point of no return, pull out and switch positions. Or, pull out and go down on her for a while.

wingshot

Let her guide you. Tell her you like it when she grabs your head and moves it in the right direction. Once you get the clue make her grab the headboard and not let go. It will drive her crazy!!!

peptofunk

Just get drunk first, that'll numb ya up pretty good...

Butter

Cheers for the replies guys! Although one from someone more female wouldnt go amiss, how do you like it done, is there anything thats a dead cert. do get a girl going, or is it different for everyone?

durden

well all women are different. the best thing to do is ask her as said above. she knows where it is good for her and how she likes it. dont be nervous man. if you like her just relax a little and you should last longer. also a little masterbation with an ejaculaton before anything goes down will increase time until your next ejaculation. good luck

happyturtle

yeah, ask her what she likes.

i personally like it rough. my guy is awesome with his fingers and he uses his first two or three ( I am not sure which ) to penetrate me while he suck on my breasts. then he starts using his tongue while he takes those two or three fingers and rotates them about eighty degrees in me

wolfrebel

Best thing to do is ask. You'll impress her for wanting too know what she likes and you'll learn at the same time. As for the endurance...if its that important you may want to masturbate beforehand to make it last longer. Most men can ejaculate between 3 and 4 times before shooting blanks. Hope this helps

BigRat

To that I'd add...
Use a regular condom over top of the Extended Release one so you don't numb her too.
Also, using the two of them together will help ya last longer.

One other thing is to have her on top. I can last alot longer if my girl is doin' the drivin' !

Wilken

Worse advise was never doled out. NEVER double bag it, as it will increase friction between the two condoms and lead to breakage of both. Seriously, bush league, if you're having problems, just use the extended release.

jeffc574

She will guide you on the oral. try working around the clit but not on at first. She will lead you. Don't worry about going deep, most girls like it around the front anyway.

Lasting longer 69 until you both cum. Then more playing until you are ready again.

phillychief

dive into it and use your lips, nose and most importantly the tongue. Don't be afraid to get into it. As far as lasting longer when you feel you are close stop and switch positions

BigRat

Read on ......

As far as contraception experts know, no scientific studies have been conducted with the purpose of looking at the differences in sexually transmitted disease (STD) and pregnancy prevention, as well as breakage risk, between wearing two (or more) condoms at once versus wearing only a single condom. However, strong anecdotal evidence is available. According to an article in the November 1995 issue of the American Journal of Public Health (pp. 1514 - 1520) entitled, "Condom use among female commercial sex workers in Nevada's legal brothels" (by A.E. Albert, D.L. Warner, R.A. Hatcher, J. Trussell, and C. Bennett), the participants were asked, during a standardized interview, about strategies they used to prevent condom breakage during the previous year. More than half of these women reported using the "double-up" strategy. This "double-bagging" approach did not appear to result in condom breakage for them. To reduce friction and the possibility of condom breakage risk even further, these women also reported adding extra lube between the two condoms.


For now, until hard science presents otherwise, the main issue here seems to be more about a state of mind. If you remain concerned, or unconvinced, about breakage risks from wearing multiple condoms at once, stick with wearing a single condom. On the other hand, if you remain concerned that single condoms do not provide enough protection against STDs and pregnancy, then "double-up" if this will ease your mind. In general, protective efficacy and breakage risks seem to be similar for single as well as multiple condoms, particularly if sex is vigorous or prolonged [i.e., using the same condom(s) for sex lasting more than 1-1/2 to 2 hours]. In that case, use a new condom (or condoms).

pathos

Man that is the easest question in the world.

If a girl wants to be eaten out, ask her where and she will GLADLY show you.