premature ejac
 

so me and my gf have been doing it for quite a while, but lately seems like theres more time in between each session. everytime we do it now I can barely hold it in once we get it going and not lasting very long. any suggestions?

Re: premature ejac
 

try jerking off beforehand?

Re: premature ejac
 

Try talking to her to see why it's not as regular?

Re: premature ejac
 

Widen your stance. By keeping your knees further apart helps the bloodflow. Not really sure about the biomechanics of it, but always worked.

Re: premature ejac
 

Ive heard this has worked......also try whacking off before, this has helped me in the past when I went with out sex for a long time and then knew I was going to have sex later that night. I dont know if your wearing a condom or not but if not you could use a condom

Re: premature ejac
 

Yeah, I'm having the same problem. I'm relatively new to the whole sex scene but it seems like even after a while now there's just no improvement. I feel like there's something wrong with me... How long does it really take to 'get better'?

Re: premature ejac
 

cock rings and ball dividers are fun to use plus they end up desensitizing you a little which means you will last longer even when you're not using them. the trick is, once you get to lasting longer, you have to get good at sex so the woman WANTS you to last longer.

good luck.

Re: premature ejac
 

Have a few cold ones first! Just don't have too many, then you won't be able to get it up at all!

Re: premature ejac
 

When you do masturbate, try to get yourself very close to ejaculation and then back off. Try this several times. You can have your girlfriend help.

As you get older and more experienced, the problem takes care of itself - in most cases anyway.

Re: premature ejac
 

When you feel yourself getting close, reach down and give your balls a gentle but firm downward tug. Just hard enough to be uncomfortable, but not enough to really hurt.

Also, I was once with a girl that gave terrrible head. So if I thought I was getting close, I'd tell her to stop and go down on me. it still felt good, but wasn't nearly enough to push me over the edge and it gave me the break I needed to calm down.

Lemonade outta lemons, I guess.