superphi

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Alright, I know I haven't really posted often since I joined, more of a lurker, but now I find myself in a situation that I have no idea how to handle. About a year ago I met a girl while she was visiting some of friends at my University. We hit things off from the start and spent alot of time together while she was down for the weekend. Since that weekend we have continued to talk either by phone or instant messenger. Over the past year though I have started to feel more and more attracted to her but cannot really tell if she feels the same way. I want to try and start up a relationship with her but I'm not sure how to go about it. We don't really have any mutual friends, we met randomly while going out to eat, and she live's over four hours away. I've always heard that long distance relationships are impossible, yet I've never been in one before so I have no clue what they're like. Any advice or experience you guys can share would be greatly appreciated.

skept

Just tell her you like her more then a friend and would like to go out with her.


Personally - she may seem like all that and then some, but after a year she may still only see you as just a friend and if you come out and ask her out that might make it a bit odd between you two after that. A chart was posted previously here which said where you would sit for a girl and it does seem that you are in the friend slot if she doesn't respond to your feelings etc.

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