Two first timers

[Anibal]

Originally Posted by Juan.Camaney

There ya go, Bob! (I was actually planned though hehe) What's the purpose of using a rubber? Mainly, its for std's and birth control. Why would you be concerned about std's with a virgin? And why would you mess up your first shot at sex by putting a 8 mil thick piece of plastic between you and your girl? SPECIALLY if there are more methods of BC, foam, pills, shots, etc.

Its no mystery around here that rubbers and I don't get along. Its also no mystery that I've been around the block more times than the ice cream man. I'm STD free. I would seriously just use something else if I were the poster.

Regardless, I hope he posts after his experience.

If you are going to have sex with your gf then you shouldnt have to worry about STDs and its really easy for her to know when its 100% safe to have sex without a rubber or even the pill. So you can plan that and make it a better experience, me i was just really horney and so was she so i just went out got rubbers and did it

Im not the biggest fan of condoms but if you are going to have sex with (i dont want to say stranger but you get the point, not your gf) then a condom is very good thing to have around. You can never really trust 100% on the girl i mean come on she is going to sleep with you without knowing too much about you. You cant be sure if she remembered to take her pills or how clean she is.


So basically, having rubbers will come in very handy for unplanned sex.

[thriph]

Just got back from a weekend vacation with the girlfriend. We did it three or four times, wasn't as tough as thought it was going to be... Thanks guys for all your inputs

[PMBalls]

Originally Posted by thriph

Thanks for all your inputs

THATS WHAT SHE SAID.

Glad it went well.

[Absolut33]

Originally Posted by thriph

She's not nervous because she's unsure, she's nervous just because she's never done it. Any recommendations on where to get condoms? Online or in a store? But I have a feeling that I'd feel weird buying condoms or anything sex-related in a store in person...

Why? It's a sign that you are being a responsible sexually active person. The people in retail stores have seen hundreds (possibly thousands) of people buy condoms. Heck, the lubricants such as Astroglide (common with anal sex) are in the same section.

[bertolocci]

dude.. just try a bottle of red wine. it will fix both of your problem..

[marcus707]

Hey man,
don't psyche yourself out. If you're both new to it, just have fun and relax. Music, with dim lights, some wine and a warm comfortable place is perfect. Sounds cleched, but that's because it works.

enjoy

[Full_of_life]

I would say just don't be in a hurry. Give her enough time and play around with her.

You will know once she is ready then there is no looking back