please ladies help

[freakpimp2169]

im not one to ask for help or anything like this.. its completely outta myself for doing this i just duno wat to do bout it..

heres the story me and this girl are into eachother and in a recent convo i had with her she said 2 things bout me that im guessin she dun like..
1. im terrible talkin bout wats wron and opening up
2. im not aggresive..

i never been the kind to open up to my girl and i use to be agressive but that ended a few bad things for me..

plz ne comments would be apreciated

[Bigeme]

I'm not trying to be a smartass but learn to type.

It's hard to open up to someone and every girl will expect you to, but not garuntee the same in return.

If she is into you then you are agressive enough. If she told you she wasn't into you because you weren't agressive then you are already screwed.

[senseimike2007]

Originally Posted by Bigeme

I'm not trying to be a smartass but learn to type.

It's hard to open up to someone and every girl will expect you to, but not garuntee the same in return.

If she is into you then you are agressive enough. If she told you she wasn't into you because you weren't agressive then you are already screwed.

100 percent agreed

Hmmm, explain to her that it takes time to open up, and define aggressive, that could mean a few different things, but all in all, if she doesn't accept you the way you are, move on, or you'e going to be miserable.

[clamsrus]

you (and she) may be confusing being assertive with being aggressive...does she want you to take the lead more in decision making? communicating what you want and how you feel takes confidence in the other person...especially if you think you may lose them by displeasing them and seek approval...pretty normal when you are feeling your way into a relationship. Aggression.....hmmmm....now that is different...are we talking about bodice ripping rough play....or bad boy antics...don't go there except in play!...with both of you knowing the boundaries.

[freakpimp2169]

ok thanx you all.. and ya i think she ment taking lead more but its all good now.. thanx alot