19 too young?

[scotty2Ts]

i'm a 25 yr old guy just started dating a 19 yr old girl who is basically everything a guy could ask for, only thing that doesn't satisfy me is our age difference. anyone have opinion on it? is she too young for me?

[gorillamango]

A lot of people go by the Half your age plus seven rule

25/2 +7 =19.5 so by that standard you're good to go.

[hwnstyl16]

it matters on maturity level

[Juan.Camaney]

It should only matter to you.

I don't see any problem if she fills voids. If the only issue is age because of what other people think, fuck them.

[CD]

Originally Posted by scotty2Ts

i'm a 25 yr old guy just started dating a 19 yr old girl who is basically everything a guy could ask for, only thing that doesn't satisfy me is our age difference. anyone have opinion on it? is she too young for me?

There's a big difference in being 19 and acting 19. My question is how an age could satisfy or not satisfy you... just pretend you two never told each other your ages... does she do anything you don't care for, or are others negatively assess the dating like Juan said?

[kulotsalot]

Originally Posted by CD

There's a big difference in being 19 and acting 19. My question is how an age could satisfy or not satisfy you... just pretend you two never told each other your ages... does she do anything you don't care for, or are others negatively assess the dating like Juan said?

Wise words, CD. I completely agree.

My problem is I want them to look my age but act older, which is kind of impossible, since most guys take looooooonger to mature.

[Juan.Camaney]

Originally Posted by kulotsalot

Wise words, CD. I completely agree.

My problem is I want them to look my age but act older, which is kind of impossible, since most guys take looooooonger to mature.

Early 30 year olds still look like they are mid 20's if they are good about their grooming and keep in touch with fashion.

Just to add more to the original question, though. Honestly, 19 year olds, although they can go through the motions and act older, haven't really lived enough to where they can be trusted to not just act a certain age, but be in the mindset of a certain age.

My opnion, ignorant as it may be, is that have fun with your 19 year old, but don't expect too much in the compatability department.

[CD]

Originally Posted by Juan.©amaney

Just to add more to the original question, though. Honestly, 19 year olds, although they can go through the motions and act older, haven't really lived enough to where they can be trusted to not just act a certain age, but be in the mindset of a certain age.

My opnion, ignorant as it may be, is that have fun with your 19 year old, but don't expect too much in the compatability department.

I have to agree with the resident Messican here... hard to get life experience by age 19.

[scotty2Ts]

thanks i appreciate all the replies. i've considered the maturity thing cuz my last relationship was with a 21 yr old psycho so i didn't have many expectations of younger girls. but i'm a good judgement of character and she's a down to earth level headed woman. i think my problem is i am worried about what other people think, obviously cuz otherwise this thread wouldnt even be here if i wasn't... thanks again

[kulotsalot]

Originally Posted by scotty2Ts

thanks i appreciate all the replies. i've considered the maturity thing cuz my last relationship was with a 21 yr old psycho so i didn't have many expectations of younger girls. but i'm a good judgement of character and she's a down to earth level headed woman. i think my problem is i am worried about what other people think, obviously cuz otherwise this thread wouldnt even be here if i wasn't... thanks again

Are you sure that you are a good judge of character given that, by your own admission, your last relationship was with a "psycho?"

[scotty2Ts]

Originally Posted by kulotsalot

Are you sure that you are a good judge of character given that, by your own admission, your last relationship was with a "psycho?"

haaaaaaaa got me!! but ya she was only psycho when she drank, so it took me a while to figure that one out... but touche touche

[Juan.Camaney]

only psycho when she drank, eh? nice.

Guy, you are just 25, what the hell kinda hurry are you to be in relationships anyway? Date around some.

[BackdoorJesus]

what juan said...

Is 19 too young? Hell dude...25 is too young!

Date around, taste the world; don't make the 19-year-old your "girlfriend", put her in your bullpen for rotation with all the others you should be nailing at 25.

[scotty2Ts]

yea i see your point there too. i was in a relationship from 16 to 23 so i guess i'm not the type who "dates around" but yea its whatever we'll see where it goes

[Juan.Camaney]

Wow...well, I hope you know what you are doing, man. Sounds to me like you need to get out and explore a little before you go settling down.