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Juan.Camaney
06-19-2005, 04:38 AM
My day went GREAT! Woke up after a night of light drinking and hangin out. I went to work with my dad the day before father's day to help him with a little concrete placing. There was a graduation party that I went to. I showed up, had a few drinks, mariachi was playing and people wanted me to sing (I have a decent voice) but I declined (sound like a horse right now) and danced a little bit...AWESOMENESS.

We decided to go play some Hold'em at my sister's house. I drove my brother's girlfriend's cousin there, and on our way there we get semi lost, picked up some beer, end up at the right place and earlier than everyone.

THEN it happens. After a few hands, my brother's friend from high school...a guy we here at the family have grown to love as our own brother (I've refered to him as such on posts here) decides to get bitchy.

On one hand, I had folded but found out that even with the pair of aces, I could have won the hand. Being a little buzzed, I start examining the game (game had been over, but I was just double checking to see who would bluff etc. on decent hands) and he steps in and yells "Shut up, its not like you were in on this game, get out!"

I was like, "Dude, relax, I'm just checking cards, we aren't doing this to make a living, just passing the time."

He continued with the"Well you didn't go in, so just get out!"

I grabbed the remaining chips I had (about 40 bucks worth) pushed them towards his pile (about 10 bucks worth) and just said, "Here, play the rest of these if it means that much, I'm not doing this to get rich, I make this money in less than an hour and you make it in half a day...if it makes you feel better, I give it to you so soon you can be a millionaire."

Ofcourse he took offense and pushed them back, knocking some on the floor. I picked most up, and my brother's gf helped me with the rest. WTF does she need to be doing that for!? ANY FEMALE DOES NOT NEED TO BE ON HER KNEES UNLESS ITS SEX RELATED...She is a sweetheart though, and I thanked her for it.


The next game, I forget to ante and he skips me. We ALL forget to ante every now and then, yet we know, whoever is playing, we just deal them in and remind them to ante later....not this little bitch, he skips me. I stop him, ante, and shift the cards back so I have the card that corresponds to me and everyone else has the cards they were to be dealt. He screamed bloody fucking murder about how I couldn't do that cuz it was his turn to be dealer. My brother stepped in and told him he was stupid since we all forget every now and then. He replied with the "well this is how they do it in Vegas..." bullshit. We all rolled our eyes.

I snapped. I told him we were all putting in like 20 bucks and 20 bucks wasn't SHIT! I yanked my wallet out and took out some 20's and asked him how many he needed, he plays like he is out to steal our money all the time, so I've tossed moeny at his feet a lot trying to make him understand that money isn't everything and that 20 bucks isn't that much money compared to the friendship he will lose with his idiocy.

He was pissed and thinking I was being condecending (whic dmitedly I was) since I make about 3 times what he does and he is bitter about it. So I simply told him "FUCK YOU, if you can't be a man about shit." He stood up....

I'm 6' 00" 250 lbs and pretty fucking muscley, there's pics, search for them. He is 5'5" 160 lbs and has Napoleon complex to the fucking 100th power. As soon as he got up, so did I and pushed his ass from the living room to the kitchen (8 feet) with one arm and if it wasn't for my brother standing up and catching him, he would have hit the floor.

My brother's gf stood up, put an arm up across my chest and said "Alex, you are in your sisters house, don't disrespect."

I grabbed my chips, pushed them at my brother's pile and said, "here dude, play these, if you win, boy me a 40 oz tomorrow and we'll call it even. If you lose, I'll buy you a 40 oz and call you a dumb shit."

I went for the stairs and headed towards my truck to go home. I wanted to avoid getting heated and wanted to keep a cool head and just end the night there.

Little sumbitch followed me screaming, "Just cuz you're bigger than me you think I am scared of you?!"

I turned around, and just stopped at the bottom of the stairs on their portch, turned around and said "What you got?!" about ready to put this little fugger on his ass and not stop until he was unconscience.

My brother steped in between, tried to push me (he is a little smalled than I am) and failed miserably. He pushed the other dude's little ass a few feet back. I looked at both of them and said, "I'm on my way out, I don't need to beat the shit out of some little midget to prove who I am. 20 bucks is worth more than disrespecting my sister's home, beating on a friend, and getting inbetween the friendship my brother brought into my family"

I was free to go towards the stairs and out towards my truck without anything blocking me, and I drove away calmly without the screetching tires or attitude.

My sister called me on my drive over, I picked up and appologized. Told her I was fine and told her I'd call her when I got home...they were pretty worried that I was over excited and would speed or do something stupid as I've done in the past, but after some years, I've matured and know shit like this isn't worth it. I called her when I got home and she thanked me...then she put my brother in law on and he asked me what had happened.

In a few words, I let him know...

"I'm too old to be fighting over 20 bucks and won't fight a minimum wager who's ass i can kick one-armed over it. If he thinks he can be an asshole all his life, that's fine, but I'm not taking shit from him."

I walked on in and my dad was in the kitchen grabbing a midnight snack and waiting up for us. I told him what happened and he shook his head over the whole thing and said, "I told you guys that little dude doesn't deserve to come around here any more (passed experiences). Go to bed and try not to linger about it so much."

I pretty much told him, "Dad, I'm done defending him, he isn't worth my words, or my patience."

Up until today, I was about the only one who would defend his little attitude, or his moronic actions.

This whole thing helped me realize how much I had changed. Any other day, the little guy would be holding a steak to his eye if he could even regain conscienceness. I'm too old for this shit. Some little fucker doesn't deserve me to be getting this excited...I'm fucking JUAN CAMANEY, I make little bitches like that my fucking slaves.

More to come as shit unravles...<<< f you if I mispelled that.

Ryan
06-19-2005, 04:51 AM
This whole thing helped me realize how much I had changed. Any other day, the little guy would be holding a steak to his eye if he could even regain conscienceness. I'm too old for this shit. Some little fucker doesn't deserve me to be getting this excited...I'm fucking JUAN CAMANEY, I make little bitches like that my fucking slaves.

More to come as shit unravles...<<< f you if I mispelled that.

Note to self: Don't piss Alex off. :)

I have news- your day could have been WAY worse. I've been at work installing an upgrade since 3pm. It's 3am right now, and I'm not even close to done. I have to be in at 6am tomorrow morning. I may very well be pulling an all nighter. Fuck major system upgrades. (Tape backup running right now, so I've got 20-30 mins of downtime)

Juan.Camaney
06-19-2005, 04:58 AM
This was anger built within 2-3 months...it takes a LOT for me to get this worked up. I won't rip someone a new one just because.

Good luck with your shiznit...I just can't believe you are working on a weekend.

Ryan
06-19-2005, 05:04 AM
This was anger built within 2-3 months...it takes a LOT for me to get this worked up. I won't rip someone a new one just because.

Good luck with your shiznit...I just can't believe you are working on a weekend.

Two words (or maybe one hyphenated word):

DOUBLE TIME (DOUBLE-TIME)



I needs all the cash I can get with the house purchase going on right now and all... sucks that I'm STILL here though... This is what I get for working for a small company where I AM the IT department. Not part of an IT department...no... I AM the IT department.

Juan.Camaney
06-19-2005, 05:09 AM
lol sucks to be you...'cept the money and stuff. so when you get started on that restroom, don't forget to give me a call!

Ryan
06-19-2005, 05:16 AM
will do, bro

and I found out something- that bathroom doesn't have a shower pan... it's TILE... I can either take out all the tile and put in a shower pan, but there's a WINDOW around shoulder height, so it makes more sense to re-tile it... guess I'll have to match the existing tile

know anything about tile? :)

koЯnut
06-19-2005, 05:40 AM
Sorry about your semi shitty night Juanito. But you did the right thing, although I wouldn't of blamed you in the least if you would of blacked both his eyes with one punch.

You were the bigger man...you know it, he knows it. So looks like you win.



*note to self...Next time you hang with Alex, get him shit faced and make him sing La Bamba*

Ryan
06-19-2005, 05:42 AM
*note to self...Next time you hang with Alex, get him shit faced and make him sing La Bamba*

I'd drive out to LA one night for that reason alone. ughword

twobd2pmp
06-19-2005, 07:48 AM
*note to self...Next time you hang with Alex, get him shit faced and make him sing La Bamba*
:werd: lol. sorry about the shitty night

polgas
06-19-2005, 10:22 AM
incredible self control . kudos

Lucky13
06-19-2005, 11:07 AM
Kinda sounds like you egged him on and got pretty boastful. I don't see what it would have hurt to not look at cards or wait for the next hand. Would have saved a lot of confrontation. I mean although he got kinda picky, he was right, you're not supposed to look at cards unless a person has played them, and you can't ante in late. Not a huge deal but since it's not why get pissed about it? You don't need to rub your money in his face and act like that makes you better. Sounds to me like you both messed up.

PirateOZanzabar
06-19-2005, 01:29 PM
deff kudos on the self control, i would have prolly decked the dude even if he was seudo(sp?) family. and unlike what clucky said, he was deff looking for a fight for some reason. if you are just playing with friends/family and you are not actually in vegas then its house rules. and if he is being a prick about you forgetting to anti, then he is just a douche bag. its not that big a deal. as you said every one forgets to anti every once in a while. i know with my friends we just ask "who didn't anti?" we don't start flipping our gourds. (we also look at each others cards if we arn't playing). so congrats, and hope things work out so you don't loose a life long friend.





*note to self...Next time you hang with Alex, get him shit faced and make him sing La Bamba*
if this happens, record it. i want to see this lol.




and juan. $20 is worth a lot. to me any ways lol. so if you want to give some away, pm me and ill give you my address :happycow:



and also. why would you fold with pair of aces?????? and were these pocket aces or was one down? and still! why fold on a pair of aces???????? that is just plane wierd..... lol.

Juan.Camaney
06-20-2005, 09:10 AM
Kinda sounds like you egged him on and got pretty boastful. I don't see what it would have hurt to not look at cards or wait for the next hand. Would have saved a lot of confrontation. I mean although he got kinda picky, he was right, you're not supposed to look at cards unless a person has played them, and you can't ante in late. Not a huge deal but since it's not why get pissed about it? You don't need to rub your money in his face and act like that makes you better. Sounds to me like you both messed up.
Apparently, everyone agreed with you and I was the one who
"fucked up" and "crossed the line." He was over at my house yesterday, I told him not to fuck around with me anymore and to keep it cool.

I still want to beat his ass tho. Whatev.

tboltman
06-20-2005, 10:40 AM
and You thought you had a bad F.D. weekend.........
Friday morning, we get a call at work ( wife works w/ me ).
They found her cousin that morning, had hung herself.
They call back at noon, the funeral is Sat at 11:00.
So we leave at 4:30 and drive Houston to Corpus.
Attend the funeral and drive back Sat. evening.
Sunday I get to drive my son from Houston to Dallas
to drop him off at Skateboarding camp and drive back to Houston.
1000 miles this weekend. I'm tired of driving.
but.....
I get to drive back Friday to pick him up and bring him home.
Lucky Me.

He said to think of it as Quality father / son time taking him to Dallas,
but then wore his Ipod most of the way, when not sleeping.

Gotta love the kids........ :lolhit:

Juan.Camaney
06-20-2005, 10:47 AM
Bummer about your wife's cousin. Don't hear about many people actually hanging themselves any more.

Why'd she do it?

tboltman
06-20-2005, 10:52 AM
27 y.o.
been bi-polar and clinnically depressed since jr. high.
probably at peace for the first time in many years.
But the family all blames themselves, which is the sad part.
Thank God her husband came home from a dbl shift
and found her before her 8 y.o. son did.

Juan.Camaney
06-20-2005, 10:54 AM
Wowzers. Sucks more ass than kornut.