miscarriage.

[jrmcg]

me and my woman have trying to have a baby for a long time. shes had symptoms for a few weeks, but we never bought a test. then one day, we finally buy one. its positive. we buy another. positive again. she goes to the doctor and they tell her she is 2 months pregnant. a couple days she later, she starts having pains. she goes back to the doctor and they tell her that her cervix is open and a miscarriage is inevitable. the next day, the baby is dead. what i dont get is how she can go 2 months without knowing she is pregnant and everything be fine. then 2 days after we find out, the baby dies.

[fmb]

There's a possibility she didn't know she was pregnant if her menstrual cycle is irregular. If she's not on the average 28 day cycle, she may not really have a clue as to when she will have her period. If you're planning a baby, the 28 day cycle is critical, as this will allow the two of you to predict when she will ovulate.

Spending twenty years on an ambulance, I had several patients that experienced miscarraiges. Some of those women had experienced multiple miscarriages. I don't think doctors know exactly why this happens, but something to remember is a developing fetus is considered a foreign object in the mothers body. During pregnancy, her immune system becomes suppressed so the fetus isn't rejected.

Dealing with a miscarriage can be difficult. I hope the two of you offer lots of support to the other. Tears and talking will be a tremendous help in dealing with your loss. Also, before trying again for a baby, she should talk with her doctor and see if the doctor can help identify anything that contributed to the miscarriage and can be avoided during ya'lls next attempt.

Good luck!

[Juan.Camaney]

There's women who go longer than that without realizin it, bro. Irregular periods, spotting/bleeding through pregnancies, etc.

[TigerLand]

Sorry to hear that mate

[jrmcg]

its ok. i handled it alot better than she did. we just took in 3 kids a couple weeks ago. so, as difficult as it is, maybe it was for the best.
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