I need advice on this situation

[huey23]

long story short I know this girl for about 6 month we have gone out and talk on the phone regularly. And sometimes she seems interested in me and sometimes not, I kinda like her and i would like to know if there a method or a way to see if she is really interested in me to decide if I can take it to the next level, relationship etc. or move on.

I am new to the forum and I would really like your help. thanks in advance

[gen. cutter]

I know this is a tricky deal because she's playing coy. But I think the only way to handle this would be to make a move with great confidence. Confidence is one of the few things girls respect. when you make your move; say, a kiss, if she tries to parry your advance, hold your ground. Act like; you know she wants to kiss you- she's just playing. Or; you know she wants to kiss you, even if she doesn't know it.

Got it? I say this after losing out once or twice on a great experience by being too timid. EVEN IF SHE TURNS YOU DOWN, don't act shy or rejected. Laugh it off and tell her: "We're gonna kiss one day. And you're gonna love it."

If your relationship ends after that, well, at least you're not left in limbo. But if your confident, she'll probably go with the flow just to see where it leads. Be the man, stud! You're like a big fucking bear and she's this little bunny. You're money, bro! (Everybody needs a wingman.)

[Ryan]

Girls like to hang on to guys in that limbo because it's kind of like having a man in reserve for if she's lonely and needs companionship.

I agree with gen cutter- be confident and make a move. If it works, sweet. If not, at least you know.

I especially like the confident like "We're gonna kiss one day. And you're gonna love it". That's the shit right there.

[Nuts_]

dude, you only live once, gen. cutter has got it sussed, go for it!

[joerockhead]

Maybe she is not sure how you feel. Maybe she thinks you are being wishy washy.

talk to her, let he know how you feel.

[fmb]

Ask her out. Worse thing that could happen? She could say no. If she doesn't go, I don't think it'll do anything negative to your friendship. In my experience, even chick friends like to know they're hot enough or great enough for you to ask for a date. At the least, it'll boost her confidence!

[MaxZorin]

Make a move!! It's a win/win.
If she says yes you get fun tonite, if she says No, you stops losing your time and you can start looking somewhere else for what you need.

[Anibal]

I know this is a tricky deal because she's playing coy. But I think the only way to handle this would be to make a move with great confidence. Confidence is one of the few things girls respect. when you make your move; say, a kiss, if she tries to parry your advance, hold your ground. Act like; you know she wants to kiss you- she's just playing. Or; you know she wants to kiss you, even if she doesn't know it.

Got it? I say this after losing out once or twice on a great experience by being too timid. EVEN IF SHE TURNS YOU DOWN, don't act shy or rejected. Laugh it off and tell her: "We're gonna kiss one day. And you're gonna love it."

If your relationship ends after that, well, at least you're not left in limbo. But if your confident, she'll probably go with the flow just to see where it leads. Be the man, stud! You're like a big fucking bear and she's this little bunny. You're money, bro! (Everybody needs a wingman.)

Thats it right there.

Ask her out, if she says no then no big deal. Its not like you asked her to marry you...

[vento]

You're like a big fucking bear and she's this little bunny. You're money, bro! (Everybody needs a wingman.)

What I love about this line is that it was supposed to be (and was) a funny part of the movie - but it's *so* true.

[huey23]

thanks, everyone for the advice

[fmb]

So.... have you asked her out? With the Halloween holiday, there were lots of parties to take her to.

[jrmcg]

dude, you only live once



i second that. you gotta speak up. dont let someone else jump in there. stop wondering and start knowing. you know what- its not your decision anymore. its ours, and were saying lay it all out there with your head held high. you da man!