michaeljohn
07-21-2009, 04:55 PM
Let's start this way. Many of you are probably in your twenties. Think back to the time you could first ejaculate. Orgasms were a lot better back then, weren't they? The male is supposed to reach his sexual peak around age 16-17. This isn't to say you will never enjoy sex and your orgasm again, it's just to say we were better back then.
As we get older, the power goes down a bit. Men remain fertile their entire lives, women don't. Myself, I have found that pornography does nothing to stimulate my sexual desires. I don't get aroused watching movies or looking at pics on my computer. So, when I remain single, arousal is not an issue. I don't often get aroused and it doesn't bother me that I don't.
However, give me a woman, and I am just fine. Or rather the bits and pieces rise to the challenge. At age 54, I have never even felt like I needed a dose of Viagra.
My history with women in bed was consistent in one respect until recently. With every lady I had been to bed with, I was never able to orgasm during the first encounter. Actually, this is not a bad thing at all. It leads to your lover having multiple orgasms, and she simply will need you back for more time and time again.
My current girlfriend has turned out differently for me. I have came each and every time I have been with her, and also fairly quickly. I am trying to figure out exactly why. I don't come so fast she gets left out, because I take care to make certain she receives proper pleasure. I do this with cunninglingus, and drive her wild until she wants me inside of her. There are two other important factors. First, my penis girth is way above average. Second, her vagina is extremely tight. Even after arousing her, her opening is extremely narrow and I have to press a bit to get my penis inside of her. Once inside, I get a feeling I never had before, her vaginal walls snugly squeeze my penis. I have no problem exercising the proper motion as she is well lubed inside naturally. So, what happens to me is, I experience new sensations I never had before and reach a climax fairly quickly. This isn't to say every other woman I have had is loose, it's just that she is extremely tight.
I think if men fear losing their potency, it could be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Sex is like riding a bike. Once you learn you never forget. As we age, we simply have to find ways to remain interested and capable of having sex.
That's all, let's see where this thread goes. I don't need advice, I just wanted to share, and perhaps compare similar thoughts and instances with the members here. Female input is most welcome, they can tell us about lovers at various ages.
As we get older, the power goes down a bit. Men remain fertile their entire lives, women don't. Myself, I have found that pornography does nothing to stimulate my sexual desires. I don't get aroused watching movies or looking at pics on my computer. So, when I remain single, arousal is not an issue. I don't often get aroused and it doesn't bother me that I don't.
However, give me a woman, and I am just fine. Or rather the bits and pieces rise to the challenge. At age 54, I have never even felt like I needed a dose of Viagra.
My history with women in bed was consistent in one respect until recently. With every lady I had been to bed with, I was never able to orgasm during the first encounter. Actually, this is not a bad thing at all. It leads to your lover having multiple orgasms, and she simply will need you back for more time and time again.
My current girlfriend has turned out differently for me. I have came each and every time I have been with her, and also fairly quickly. I am trying to figure out exactly why. I don't come so fast she gets left out, because I take care to make certain she receives proper pleasure. I do this with cunninglingus, and drive her wild until she wants me inside of her. There are two other important factors. First, my penis girth is way above average. Second, her vagina is extremely tight. Even after arousing her, her opening is extremely narrow and I have to press a bit to get my penis inside of her. Once inside, I get a feeling I never had before, her vaginal walls snugly squeeze my penis. I have no problem exercising the proper motion as she is well lubed inside naturally. So, what happens to me is, I experience new sensations I never had before and reach a climax fairly quickly. This isn't to say every other woman I have had is loose, it's just that she is extremely tight.
I think if men fear losing their potency, it could be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Sex is like riding a bike. Once you learn you never forget. As we age, we simply have to find ways to remain interested and capable of having sex.
That's all, let's see where this thread goes. I don't need advice, I just wanted to share, and perhaps compare similar thoughts and instances with the members here. Female input is most welcome, they can tell us about lovers at various ages.