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BlackJackuk
04-09-2009, 07:27 PM
Hey, myself and my girlfriend are both virgins and we will be having sex soon. I'd like some advice like what type of condom to use and such.

Thanks for your time.

CD
04-09-2009, 08:06 PM
Hey, myself and my girlfriend are both virgins and we will be having sex soon. I'd like some advice like what type of condom to use and such.

Thanks for your time.

LifeStyles Skyn. Best condom ever. Actually that might be Magnum Extra Large, but for you... probably the Skyns.

Rapist Wit
04-10-2009, 02:58 AM
I read somewhere that you should get the "Ribbed for her pleasure" ones and turn it inside out for your pleasure.

Other than that, since you are both virgins and don't have to worry about previous encounters with STD's, you may enjoy the Naturalamb brand. They are not latex rubber, but natural membrane.

The Naturalamb condoms feel much better than any latex rubber condom I ever used. They provide protection against pregnancy, but not against most STD's, so if you were to screw some other girl on the side, use latex rubber so you don't bring anything back to your pure girlfriend.

fmb
04-10-2009, 10:31 PM
Glad to hear y'all are going to practice safe sex. Hell, that's a great positive right there. Personally, I don't have a favorite condom style. As long as the damn thing isn't a thick as an off road truck tire, you shouldn't have many problems.

Good luck and enjoy your experience!

siopawman
04-12-2009, 05:44 AM
stay safe (if you can resist the temptation of not using one on you first time), any known brand will do.

avoid/stay out of weird condom names, those you think are not marketed internationally.

cheers! ^_^

GRE
04-12-2009, 07:56 PM
Unless you are 100% convinced, Don't do it, wait until you become convinced or until marriage, so you won't regret.

CD
04-13-2009, 12:24 AM
Unless you are 100% convinced, Don't do it, wait until you become convinced or until marriage, so you won't regret.
Seriously? Ok GRE, lets assume he is already convinced. Waiting till marriage doesn't seem to be the norm now-a-days, so lets try offering up some advice that he wants to hear.

kulotsalot
04-13-2009, 01:30 AM
My advice, and people may not necessarily agree with this, is don't expect too much out of it. Chances are, it won't be very Hollywood (for her) or Playboy (for you). It will be awkward, you won't quite know where all the limbs are supposed to go. Her hair will get caught under your hands, she will elbow you in the ribs... you get the picture. Just go with the flow. And when it's over in 5 minutes, as these things usually go, relax, rest a bit, and prepare to have loooooooots of (safe) fun afterwards, now that you've got the whole "first time" thing out of the way. :)

Juan.Camaney
04-13-2009, 11:38 AM
Don't use rubbers your first time. It sucks.

Indigenous
04-13-2009, 11:38 PM
Something no one has mentioned so far is to make sure you have plenty of condoms on hand. Don't skimp out and buy a two or three pack. Go for the six, or hell, even twelve pack. This will cover your ass if any break and will ensure you have enough to last all night long. Nothing sucks more than wanting to go for Round 4 or 5 and then having to run out to the store to grab another pack.

Kimber1911
04-16-2009, 03:09 PM
all good advice. Also, make sure it is a fresh condom, not one that has been riding around in your wallet for a year.

BlackJackuk
04-21-2009, 05:34 PM
Thanks for the advice folks! I went out and bought some endurance ones might help me last a little longer on the first time!

pullover
04-30-2009, 08:41 PM
untill you need to buy the 30pack don't buy the cheapos

BlackJackuk
05-03-2009, 05:47 PM
well, we had a go at sex last night and today but alas i didn't really happen. I lost my hardness getting the damn condom on, got it back but still couldn't get it into my GF's pussy!

Any suggestions there?

CD
05-03-2009, 05:55 PM
Have her put it on you. It's got to be hot/exciting for you to remain hard and that should work well.

Juan.Camaney
05-04-2009, 10:24 AM
yeah, like I had said, don't use a rubber your first time...reasons:

1. you will lose one or several erections from being nervous and trying to put one on

2. it will be hard since the girl will be equally as nervous (read dry) to even try to get it in

3. you probably won't even wear it right so the whole protection from pregnancies...yeah, no. And STD's, are you serious?! You're virgins!

4. do you REALLY want the first time your penus goes inside her vajayjay to have a piece of latex between you?

Honestly, you'd be better off using some spermecidal lube or something else. But what the hell do i know.

Wikdsensation
05-04-2009, 05:19 PM
Also, maybe let her play a little(if ya know what I mean) to get ya all worked up. And another tip, even though most condoms are lubricated, keep some lube on hand. Can never have enough lube. Especially if she's nervous and is having an issue with moisture. :) Relax. Enjoy. And be safe.

Juan.Camaney
05-04-2009, 05:42 PM
^^^ too much lube and since she is contracting cuz she is nervous and you got semi wood because you are nervous and she is just gonna keep squeezing you out.

BlackJackuk
05-11-2009, 07:16 AM
Thanks for the advice folks! we are now no longer virgins! used plenty of lube!

fmb
05-11-2009, 04:56 PM
Congrats!

Dr. Weezil
05-15-2009, 11:09 PM
Cheers, mate!

Check out "The Guide to Getting it On;" irreverent, but immensely informative.

gg
06-08-2009, 10:58 AM
have her put it on with her mouth
oh and make her really wet before u enter like finger her or what not it really helps you enter
if you don't use a condom making her wet is key because if u don't it might hurt for both of you trying to get it in