How important is this to you?

[La_LovelyLady]

How important is it to you that your partner is pleasured sexually? Do you even consider their orgasm before you orgasm? Do you try to make sure they enjoy themselves...or does it even matter as long as you're fulfilled? How far would you go to make sure your partner is pleased as well? :wiggle:

[sonrisa10201]

for me, its all about my partner, i mean yah, i want to be satisifed to, but i always put him first, but i am like that with everything, i always put other people first...

[sillyrabbit]

as far as it takes....its all about pleasing eachother.....id never be with a guy that didnt care about my needs like i do his

[rover4x4]

right on

[HIJACKER]

I've always made a point to get the other person off first. I personally get more pleasure and excitement out of hearing/feeling her have an orgasm than anything else. Of course back when I was like 16-19 or whatever, I didn't give a shit, and just did my thing. Although.. through the years.. I've learned a lot more and made my priorities.

Considering how much I care about Chrystine.. making her feel good I would consider my most important thing to accomplish whenever we have sex. Once I give her the first orgasm, I'll go with mine shortly there after or even the same time.

[kaosfeer]

I am all about her pleasure. Seeing her get off turns me on so much.

[RacerX93]

I have always been about pleasing my partner first. I'm very turned on by knowing that I'm giving her pleasure. And you have to figure that if you make sure your partner is satisfied, you might get it a little more often. :coold:

[dscallaway69]

it is all about her, if she don't get off it wasn't worth while. i always make sure my lady gets off a few times before i do no matter what i have to. i am willing to do almost anything to please my partner

[greb_zulu619]

Well, if i do not give her pleasure then i feel was not worth the effort, but i hate it when someone fakes an orgasm. what do thers think? let me know

[sillyrabbit]

Well, if i do not give her pleasure then i feel was not worth the effort, but i hate it when someone fakes an orgasm. what do thers think? let me know

i never fake it....if the guys not pushing the right buttons, then i tell him what he needs to do...simple as that......or if it just aint happenin and its takin too long, then ill just take care of business myself and let him watch so maybe he'll know what to do next time :)

[NoNicksLeft]

It is all about getting her off.

It's all good and well for me to get off. But physics don't allow me to continue for much longer afterwards without having a break. Besides, there's things that are more sensual than an orgasm.

I really enjoy watching women go off. It's amazing once you get them there how long you can keep them there for. They just take off and don't come down till you stop.

[cooplax]

Interesting question when asked by a woman. Most men obviosly have no problem being satisfied and I have noticed most women want to satisfy their man even without being satisfied themselves. Maybe it's the whole nurturing thing. However, the most fun in bed is had when the woman is willing to be satisfied and knows what it takes to for her to be satisfied. Overcoming a woman's inhibitions about her own sexuality has always led to me having more fun. There is NOTHING more exciting for me than having a woman satisfy herself while I caress, kiss, watch, tease etc. Usually after several orgasms, she is more than willing to f%#k your brains out.

I wish more women were like SillyRabbit.

[towman501]

since it is a dance for two people, everyone should have a good time.therefore, I do whatever I can to make sure she gets hers before I get mine(lots of foreplay and teasing) and if I should get there first, theres always other ways to finish what I started. I figured early, if she enjoys it, there's a better chance for a second time.

[gandolf203]

If she wants to come, I make sure she comes first. If she is doing it only for my pleasure, I come when I want. Having been together for so long, I can tell when she is into it and will come, and when there is no way she is getting off. My sex drive is quite a bit higher than hers, so she doesn't mind not getting off EVERY time as long as she gets off every time SHE wants.

[figjam]

I always make sure that my partner is happily satisfied before I am done. If you love your partner, you have to make sure that they are satisfied. You're BOTH having sex hence you BOTH have to enjoy it and be happy.

[CD]

Having her get off is the best. In fact there were times I'd hold off on mine just so that she could get that 3rd... nothing like the wetness of a 3timer. Cause after that I'll admit it doesn't take too long for me.

[ranger74b]

We never worry about it. We take our time and we know that it will "cum" eventually. Sometimes I cum first, sometimes she cums first, and the best time is when we cum together. I'm not one to just get mine, and then roll over. Oh no, she has to get hers! I love it when she gets hers first because when she is excited....OH GOD....that just really turns me on! But, to answer your question....it is very, very important to me that my partner is pleased.

[phil_mccrackin]

it's very important. I get more outta getting her off than anything.